@kwadwosheldon This is perfect example seyi vibez and Asake / burna boy in Nigeria . U can’t beat him locally but u outside them Dey swipe am . That’s how Kweku smoke and blacko is now .smoke winning locally blacko winning internationally .all these are based on current form .
I once said that a woman in her "purest" form is the best to build with.
I made it clear that purest form meant "virgin."
Let me expand the scope of that conversation and guide you, my audience, on how best to think very deeply.
This isn't a followup geared towards pandering to non-virgin apologists. No, not all.
I aim to bring reality to the doorstep of your mind because it's what I do best— offering you the truth.
One that stem from observable reality.
Replace "purest form" from a virgin to a little to no trauma in a woman, i.e., innocence.
A woman's purest state is when she's devoid of any and all kinds of trauma.
Starting from when she's a CHILD that avoids fights in order not to amasse a lot of bodily bruises to — a TEENAGER who doesn't get sexually molested or intentionally indulges in premarital sex to — an ADULT who isn't exposed to relationship hurt or rhetoric that disrupts her mind, etc.
In her purest state, devoid of any kind of trauma, a woman is
1. Malleable
2. Vulnerable
3. Naive
4. Impressionable
5. Volatile
6. Teachable, etc
Trauma does a whole lot of damage to a women's psyche.
Even the loss of a parents is a traumatic event that disrupts the entire essence of a woman.
They don't handle it very well because it creates a disruption in their creation and gets them to always see the negative in the world.
It's where men come in — to protect them, from those circumstances.
A woman who has lost his father should be protected by her brothers. If it is only girls that are her siblings, then her uncles and cousins.
If they aren't in good terms with those extended relatives.
It is the job of their mother to either find them a father figure, a man who would love them like they were his, or allow the men in her live, her brothers or uncles, to set in and provide the masculine frame of what a woman should be.
Without men, women are exposed to trauma, especially the men who love and cherish them.
Once a woman is exposed to trauma it is as though all the lights in her mind becomes darkness.
That is why, if a relationship fails and the woman is "innocent", even if she's guilty, she punishes the next man for the sins of the past man.
Example:
If a woman dated a man who she cooked and cleaned after and did everything she believed would make the relationship work.
And the relationship ends uo failing, what she either does is to withdraw, i.e., become celibate — this is dependent on the extent of damage and how much of herself she lost.
She'd resolve to be more strict with the next man because if she did all that and it failed, her mind will convince her that she should seek for a man who she wouldn't have to impress, but the man must impress her.
It is a trauma response and dating such a woman is a huge risk.
Imagine dating a woman who loved and was loyal to a particular man for 10 years, for example, only for them to break up because their genotype didn't match.
Do you think she will ever move on?
That's why it is best to yoke your cause with a woman who prevented herself from being traumatised, and not the one curing herself of trauma.
The choice is yours to make.
Learn or learn the hard way