I never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman, if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap, i refuse to be a placeholder, a backup plan, or a settling point.
Pregnancy isn’t 50/50
Childbirth isn’t 50/50
Breastfeeding isn’t 50/50
Postpartum isn’t 50/50
Physical body changes isn’t 50/50
Why should the bills be 50/50 when a woman has already paid in ways a man never could???
GIRLL! There’s a MAN out there that’s on everything you on, wanna go places with you, text back in a timely manner . wants to see you succeed, wanna see you happy , love your energy & adds to it.. simply just loves everything about you. WE really be wasting good time & energy on people you gotta force to do those things. GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE✨💕
Hadn’t seen my boyfriend in over a week, and when we finally sat down for dinner, he pulled out a piece of paper and said, “I’ve got so much tea to spill that I wrote it all down so I wouldn’t forget anything.” 😭😂
I’ve tasted crawling back to an ex, and I’ve tasted fighting to save a dying relationship. Skip both. Focus on your career, pray to God every day, and be asleep before 8PM.
incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it's a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy... his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. she becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.
sometimes i accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through and that is a habit i need to let go of expeditiously