Muobikwu Evanzy

Quantity Surveyor
Budding Entrepreneur
Co-Director @Bona-Tech Consult Ltd
CEO Moobix Industries Ltd

Poet & Eulogist
Arsenal Fc fanatic!

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Dear married men who are fathers,

Do you sometimes just feel like giving up & running away by abandoning your family because you're stressed, unmotivated to keep pushing & tired of life in general?

If so, what do you use as a coping mechanism & how do you snap out of it?

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[DeLigt @Parpytoh]

@jon_d_doe

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Any single woman in today's Nigeria who earns above N1.5m per month is likely to be over 30 years old.

And unfortunately, she may stay single for a much longer time, until she decides to reduce her expectations & get married to a gold digger or a 50/50 man.

End.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Money can't un-lame a lame nigga.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Always remember the GOLDEN RULE:

"The intention you show towards a lady determines the side she shows you."

If you show her you need a wife, she'll sell you the character befitting of a wife—chaste, innocent, naive etc even when she may be far from these qualities.

Beware!

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

“When a person really desires something, all the universe conspires to help that person to realize his dream.”

The question the universe is asking you is,

WHAT DO YOU WANT?

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Women are happiest & sweetest when in love. It's in their nature to be so because finding love is their primal craving, their utmost fulfillment in life. For this reason is why they aspire to marriage.

Men on the otherhand don't find utmost sense of fulfillment in love; rather they find it in work, in building something, in working on their goals....

This is the way of men.

This is why a broke & idle man can't be happy, even though he may be in love with a woman.

But a woman in a relationship can be happy while being broke & idle because she's not a success object.

As long as there's a man to satisfy her emotional needs which is love, her happiness blooms like a flower.

For this reason is why a woman can be well off, independent yet depressed.

You'd expect that with her independence should come happiness but it's clearly not the case. Why?

Because money & success isn't her utmost fulfilment in life, finding love (marriage) is.

As a man, this helps you to understand why you don't need a woman to be happy in life; rather she needs you.

You only need your purpose to be happy.

When you understand this, you become the PRIZE.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Being weak is the worst prison a man could ever be in:

Men don't respect you

Women reject you

Children don't look up to you

For a man, to be weak is to die everyday

There's no safety net for him

He lives his hell on earth

On the otherhand, there's nothing like female weakness. It's almost as if being a woman is synonymous to be being weak. Thus she goes unscorned for her weakness.

That's why as a man, you must put yourself first because everyone's first instinct is to save a woman:

A man is more inclined to save a woman than his fellow man

A woman is more likely to favour a woman than a man

Government will empower women before ever considering men

The media is more likely to believe a woman's side of a story while the man has to prove himself.

Simply put, if you're a man, the world is against you!

A woman has a safety net. You don't.

That's why you should put yourself first at all times.

Don't save a woman when you need saving yourself.

Don't dig when you're in a hole!

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Men are not interested in SNATCHING a woman who's taken; men are only interested in SMASHING her.

But women are interested in SMASHING & SNATCHING men who are taken.

Make of this what you will.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

SEE FIRST DATE AS AN INTERVIEW

You're interviewing her to know whether she's qualified to be in your life.

You're interviewing her to know if she's qualified to be given the job of taking care of you, of loving you, the PRIZE.

You're going to screen her to know whether she deserves your commitment or just for recreational use.

This is the mindset to have for first dates.

It's therefore absurd to spend outrageously on your first dates.

You are still at the screening stage, not selection stage.

And the screening stage ends when you finally get down with her.

That's when the selection stage starts, for it's only after POST NUT CLARITY that you know how you genuinely feel about a girl. Because most times, it's lust you feel for her, not love. Therefore get the sex quick & out of the way.

Now let's go back...

When you spend outrageously on your first dates, you put her on pedestals.

You've put her interests above yours, and so she begins to think she deserves better than you.

Because you're in fact begging her to be in your life & that's counterproductive.

Picture this:

When you go for a job interview, do you expect your employer to take you to a fancy restaurant for food or a mall to buy you some goodies for just coming?

This is why you should never take a girl to a place with the hope of impressing her.

Some best first date locations:

- Park
- Bar
- Garden
- Coffee shop
- Ice cream shop
- Gym
- Hiking a hill
- Art gallery
- Zoo
- Swimming pool
- Gaming centre etc

The trick is to make the first date about you, the employer.

TIP 1: Ensure your first date location is where you feel (most) comfortable.

TIP 2: Familiar environment helps in reducing tension when you talk.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Many dream about it. Few get up every morning to make it happen.

Decide where you belong.

[Bambulu 2.0 @BambuluMen]

@Bqmbulu Stop telling people more than what they need to know.

Oversharing is how you leak the energy, privacy is protection.

Forget attention.

We don’t need to know about everything going on in your life.

Move in silence. Live peacefully.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Young men,

Make as much money as you can.

The world is cruel to poor men.

[Master Togan @Getinwithgame]

It's women's job to simp for you.

It's your job to simp for your dreams.

[Latina Casanova | Learn 2 Seduce 💋 @LatinaCasanova]

A woman's past is as important as a man's future

[Lovers’ Guide 💟 @guideforlovers]

Pretty women are easy to replace.

Successful men are almost impossible to replace.

This is your reminder that YOU are the prize.

[LifeMathMoney ₿ | Unapologetic Truths. @LifeMathMoney]

You never want to be seen as "the rich guy"

The rich guy is the SUCKER

People will ask for loans, favors, etc.

Everyone's trying to get something from the rich guy

while offering nothing in return and getting upset if you say no

It does NOT pay to have the "rich guy" image.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

The last woman of a player is a winner

The last man of a whore is the loser

It is what it is.

[pa @johndoe_pa]

A man that knows his worth and value is “hated” by women.

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