jujuurr, sebenernya ada di posisi kyk OP, tp yah.. coba inget ini deh (kalau muslim).
alhamdulillaah di tengah rasanya capek mau nyerah/momen kepepet, ada aja pertolongan Allah Swt. ntah lewat apapun.
ini self reminder jg, soalnya aku pun masih sering futur. wallahu a'lam.
padahal finding someone can talk to you for hours without getting bored after a long day ITU HAL YANG TIDAK SEMUA ORANG BISA DAPATKAN. callan berjam jam cerita hal hal aneh, sharing random thoughts, dan ketawa bareng THAT'S SOOO FUN😔😔😔 i love spending time with my partner
⚠️😢 ANAK SD 10 TAHUN DI NGADA NTT BUNUH DIRI
Penyebab utamanya diduga kemiskinan ekstrem 😭
Kematian YBS (10), akibat bunuh diri, adalah tragedi kemanusiaan. Siswa kelas IV SD di Kabupaten Ngada, NTT itu putus asa dengan keadaan yang dialaminya.
Permintaan terakhir kepada ibunya sebelum meninggal adalah uang untuk membeli buku dan pena seharga kurang dari Rp 10.000, ibunya MGT (47) menjawab: tak punya uang.
Ibunya bekerja sebagai petani dan buruh serabutan. Ayahnya meninggal, dan ibunya menghidupi 5 orang anak. 🥲
isi suratnya:😭
KERTAS TII MAMA RETI
MAMA GALO ZEE
MAMA MOLO JA’O
GALO MATA MAE RITA EE MAMA
MAMA JAO GALO MATA
MAE WOE RITA NE’E GAE NGAO EE
MOLO MAMA
Artinya:
SURAT BUAT MAMA RETI
MAMA SAYA PERGI DULU
MAMA RELAKAN SAYA PERGI (MENINGGAL)
JANGAN MENANGIS YA MAMA
MAMA SAYA PERGI (MENINGGAL)
TIDAK PERLU MAMA MENANGIS DAN MENCARI ATAU MERINDUKAN SAYA
SELAMAT TINGGAL MAMA.
Kata filsuf yunani kuno Aristoteles: “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”
Maknanya, hidupmu hari ini adalah hasil dr hal-hal kecil yg kmu ulang kmrn. Kalau ingin hidupmu berubah, jgn cari momen besar, tp periksa apa yg kmu ulang tiap hari
Please fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.
Marriage isn’t about 50:50. It’s not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasn’t feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, it’s 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes it’s 55:45. Sometimes it’s 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. It’s about complementing and backing each other up. You can’t define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, they’ll make it, insyaAllah.