Having parents who didn't prepare you for literally anything in life, judging you for being "behind" as an adult is definitely a canon event for a lot of neurodivergent people.
If you're dating someone you're dating the universe too. You're dating their parents that made them anxiously avoidantly attached. You're dating the movie that taught them how to love. You're dating their exes that shaped them. You're dating the cumulative sum of all choices made through history. Love cannot be compartmentalised.
chappell roan's message to her LGBTQIA+ fans for cosmopolitan:
"remember that there are queer people everywhere. even if you may not know they are there. if you are brave and look for them you may be surprised how a community can exist no matter where you are."
Non gamers underestimate how many people use gaming as their way to decompress after work, stress, burnout or just life. For a lot of adults: gaming IS self care.