if you never ask questions, if you talk over people, if you monologue about your own interests, if you bring up inappropriate topics, if you’re negative, if you’re combative, if you’re not open to reciprocal exchange, know that i am managing you, not enjoying you
you shouldn’t call someone else’s pregnancy “body horror” for the same reason you wouldn’t call someone else’s disability or medical procedure “body horror.” it’s cruel and dehumanizing.