nadia addesi

social worker and psychotherapist

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

Want to learn how to better support a loved one in distress? Instead of assuming what they need from you ask this simple question: “do you need advice, an ear or a distraction?”

[Matthew Hoffman @MATTHEWHOFFMAN1]

🚨NEW SHOW ALERT🚨So excited to join the @onamp family with our new show Love Notes!!!! Love Notes is a LIVE relationship advice call-in show that combines two of our favorite things: Love and Music! Prescribing the perfect playlist to get you through it every Tuesday ❤️🎶

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

@chase_jace @PassportCan Mine happened to be in the mail that day. Did you mail it in or did you go in person to apply?

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

@PassportCan no one’s available on the phone & I’ve submitted an application on the website already with no response. I have a flight booked for Thursday & my mail out date was last week and my passport still hasn’t arrived, can someone please help me?

[Dove @Dove]

Join us in fighting harmful beauty advice and #DetoxYourFeed with @JessWeiner and @evolveandbloom on May 12th ✨ #DoveSelfEsteemProject

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

Remember:
It's completely valid to acknowledge
someone's apology but still need space.
You do not have to forgive someone simply
because they apologized.

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

An apology is not:
'I'm sorry you feel that way"
"It was just a joke"
"No one else would be upset over this"
"You're taking it wrong"
"You know I love you"
"I'm sorry but..
"I was just kidding"
"I'll say sorry if you..
"I didn't know you were so sensitive"
"Let's just drop it"

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

An apology is:
• Saying the words, "I am sorry."
• Admitting you were at fault
• Taking accountability for the pain you caused
• Listening without defensiveness
• Committing to changing your behaviors.
"Next time time I will.
• Going through with the commitment

[Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @DrDoyleSays]

Therapists who speak as if THEY are the ones “producing” change or achieving results in the clients’ therapy = 🚩🚩🚩

[Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @DrDoyleSays]

Trauma is an experience, not a diagnosis.

People w/ trauma in their history may come w/ a wide range of diagnoses-- which may or may not include PTSD.

We have to start thinking more broadly & contextually about the impact of trauma on emotional & behavioral health.

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

Here’s you’re reminder that you don’t get to decide what was traumatic for someone else. Trauma is relative.

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

Communication isn’t the only answer to successful relationships. We need comprehension & consistency just as much.

Communication can only get us so far but if we’re not consistently trying to understand what our partners are communicating, we’re setting ourselves up for failure

[Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @DrDoyleSays]

The entire POINT of trauma-informed care is that NOT "everyone has trauma" and NOT "everything is trauma."

That's literally the ENTIRE point.

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

What’s more important to you, losing the person from your life or losing yourself by trying to keep them in it?

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

Reminder: your relationship doesn’t have to be toxic for you to leave it. Your partner doesn’t have to have toxic qualities for you to feel unhappy or unfulfilled. If your relationship isn’t what you need, you don’t have to justify staying just because things are not “that bad.”

[nadia addesi @evolveandbloom]

Often, the things we are hard on ourselves for as adults are connected to a time in our past when we felt helpless or unsafe. We use the past as motivation to avoid this lack of control from happening again.

i.e: “I don’t need anyone” stems from not wanting to get hurt again

[janel 🇵🇸 @pband_nelly]

Respectfully, after the last two years I think we’re beyond the “is anyone else having trouble concentrating with everything going on” phase and need to be asking why we’re upholding a culture that expects us to carry on business as usual

[Melissa Dumaz, LMFT @MelissaDumaz]

Therapy is more than that weekly scheduled appointment that you attend. Therapy is a conscious decision to heal from past and recent emotional wounds. Therapy is building & adding tools to your coping skills and self-care toolbox.

[Dr. Glenn Patrick Doyle @DrDoyleSays]

"I'm an adult, I shouldn't be struggling w/ conflicts & patterns from when I was a kid!"

If you broke your leg when you were a kid & didn't get the care you needed to heal correctly, I guarantee you'll still be struggling w/ it years later.

Same w/ emotional "leg breaks."

[Eliza Orlins @elizaorlins]

The NYPD deleted this tweet, but the fact is they proudly displayed having caught people who took diapers and cough medicine.

Basic. Necessities.

This is not public safety. This is cruelty on display.