At 70/80YO and people hear of my death and be like oh!
How did he died and the reply be like he died in a skydiving adventure or a mountain climbing tour or a swimming/car racing sport/ or even at a squatting rack.
This is how I wish I die not in a sickbed
Focus on building skill.
Skill is the one thing money cannot buy, privilege cannot inherit, and no one can steal from you.
No matter who you are, skill must be earned through practice, discipline, patience, and hard work. Once you have it, it becomes your power.
@degogetteer I see how you took your experience and made it everyone's experience. Good for you, my brother. Privileged people think their experience is the standard or should be the only standard.
Women, come and listen.
This is the very reason why men don’t want you texting that “just friend” in your contact list.
We guys know all these things. We prefer not to speak because, once you do, you’ll be tagged insecure.
Unless he’s your father/brother, every other guy who’s emotionally available for you will fvck you when the right time comes.
Do you know one thing many modern women do not know?
It is the fact that the only way a woman can ever be loved the way she wants to be loved is by being with a man much older than she is.
A woman is loved best by an older man. With older men, her eternal childlike nature is condoned, and her stupidity is frequently forgiven.
Because to older men, her insufferable nature is somewhat a function of age rather than a character flaw. Thus, she is held to a lesser standard in such an environment. She is “understood.”
Financial security may seem like the primary reason, but another factor contributing to women’s hypergamous nature is men’s differing perceptions of them with age.
That is, unlike men her age, who often lack the sensitivity, perhaps the patience, to see beyond curves and cannot separate age from body size, older men perceive more than just the exterior.
They look through the lens of behaviour and general disposition and see the youthful “innocence” in her, and treat her accordingly, as a child.
Women enjoy grace from older men more than from any other source.
Not nature, not even God, tolerates women more than older men.
Older men often view women as naive, overlooking their excesses.
Conversely, with men her age, she is held accountable for her actions, something many women find burdensome.
A 23-year-old man, considering himself mature enough to think independently, expects the same level of awareness and thoughtfulness from his female counterpart.
This high logical standard can be detrimental to a woman’s whimsical and emotional modus operandi.
However, to a 40-year-old man, a 25-year-old woman is not “old enough to think” independently.
It is not love. It is our design, as humans, to rarely consider those far younger than us old enough to ever be able to think and act like us, regardless of their age and our age difference.
So, a 40-year-old man anticipates certain behaviours, such as mood swings, tantrums, and histrionics, as part of the package of dating a younger woman.
This man, seeing himself as sufficiently mature, perceives his younger woman as not yet reasonable. Thus, he is gracious. He chastises little, criticises sparingly, and adapts to her psychological tendencies far better than men her age could.
This is literally how women want to be loved.
There is no safer place to be a woman than in an older man’s companionship.
Women know this. They want this. Those on social media expressing displeasure towards these arrangements are swines.
@seyithemie I'll walk up to the one I stopped and enter that particular one.
Men's loyalty spread across all areas, including relationships. A girl who sticks around during a man's rough times likely get a better consideration in marriage when he's well to do.
@seyithemie It's Men's loyalty. It's not restricted to barber. Tailor, barber, Keke guy etc.
Whenever I want to take a bus and wave at one to stop and it that particular will apply brake and stop some distance from me and another coming behind stop immediately at my front...
One of the hardest things to do as an entrepreneur is to put all ego aside and go back to investors who might have said no before.
The truth is No doesn't always mean No ever. It's definitely no, now. But things change for everyone...who knows...
writing this for me and whoever else might need to hear it.
Don’t spend your whole life only working for money. At some point, learn how to make money work for you too.
Build assets, invest wisely, create systems, and develop income streams that can pay you even when you’re resting. That’s how real financial freedom begins.
A business without records is a rumour. Write everything down. Sales, expenses, debts, stock, suppliers, customers and losses. Data protects you from emotional decisions.
Take her on a date to the most expensive restaurant I can afford!!!
A wife would continue to treat a husband based on his commitment decisions and how he chooses to lead her!!
If I marry a woman with anger issues, it simply means I love women with anger issues and do not mind dealing with that “excess”.
If I marry a woman who’s had a hoe phase, it simply means I have no problem with it.
If I marry a woman who values money than she values our marriage, it simply means I’m comfortable in such romantic environment.
At the end of the day, every man gets the wife he chooses for himself.