if you knew how tough it was, and how long it took some people to recover their mental health, and happiness again, you'd understand why they shut their doors at the slightest sniff of toxicity, and also why they're picky af about who they allow in their lives.
I DONT play the victim. I’ll tell you straight up why I became the villain and why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my reactions to people’s actions. And I don’t mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don’t start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars and narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I’ll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, and how it happened.
My discernment goes so crazy .. i literally can tell if you don't like me and you could be being nice... I can tell if you just talk about me but act normal around me .. I can tell if you have a bad spirit... I can tell allat.. and sometimes I'll think I'm tripping cause other ppl would be like no they not like that and whole time 😭 I was right!!
When I fw you, I learn yo whole schedule😭 it take you 35 mins & 23 seconds to shower, 15 mins to take a sht, you eat 4 times a day, your mama call once a day & your sister every other day… the SECOND something off I’m on yo ass.
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
ive been so blessed fr, I try not to let my bad moments trick me into thinking I have a bad life! life isn't tied with a bow but it's still a gift and for that i'm thankful! so thank you Lord for nothing in particular but for everything in general!💜
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
i don’t have any regrets, if it was good. i enjoyed it. if it was bad, i learned from it. i can’t go around regretting the things I’ve done that made me me.