Relationships are complex. And there is no one-way to a happy marriage. But two people willing to discover the intricacies of problem-solving, forgiveness, and honesty have the best shot at something magical.
Everyone on this planet has points of immeasurable suffering in their life. When someone born to be a healer suffers, however, they learn how to alchemize the pain into something beautiful. For example, when comedians make people laugh- it’s because they hurt the most inside.
Of course 4 years from now you will advance in whatever you’re doing. Wherever you put energy will GROW. Don’t be so hard on yourself for where you are now. In 4 years you will look back on these days and admire past you for being such a hardworker, sitting on your earned success