Submitting to your husband was never about being a doormat or switching off your brain.
Itβs choosing to support and respect his lead, while still being wise, honest, and speaking up when somethingβs wrong.
Real submission trusts Godβs design, it doesnβt require you to be blind.
When he was a fat slob and couldn't hold a job he pimped her out and she paid for his music career.
Then he turned Ultra Maga, lost the weight with drugs, and wants to trade her in for a younger woman.
I say it all the time, the harder they thump the bible, the more depraved they are. He's probably going to drop a gospel album while sleeping with teenagers.
For the first time in history, women are no longer marrying men for financial security or material things, but for their character and men are failing miserably.
Women today can earn their own money, build their own lives, and secure their own futures. They don't need a man to survive anymore, so the bar has shifted. What matters now is emotional intelligence, integrity, consistency, empathy, accountability, and the ability to be a safe, supportive partner. And that's where many men are coming up short. Too many still believe providing money is enough, while neglecting respect, communication, effort, and growth.
They confuse authority with leadership, control with love, and bare minimum behavior with being "a good man." When women walk away, they're labeled as difficult, picky, or ungrateful-when in reality, they're just refusing to settle for less than peace.
This isn't a crisis of masculinity; it's a crisis of character.
Women didn't change the rules to be cruel-they changed them because they finally could. And instead of evolving, too many men are blaming women for having standards rather than rising to meet them π€