Covert narcissists often have a distorted perception of reality. They may believe that they are always right and others wrong, even when presented with evidence to the contrary. They will have a hard time acknowledging their own flaws and will likely project these onto others
Some draw their power from portraying that others are jealous of them and wear it like a badge of honor - or maybe shame - over fronting for their predator spouse. #suxtewbu#sexpred#bigfatfakewedding#pitiful
Some narcissists love being hated, they see it as a badge of honour that they have been able to bug you. However, the true strength is in walking away. Removing their sphere of influence will make you flourish
The narcissist will turn on their own family if the family donβt play by the narcs rules. You must worship them, you must do as they say, you must live in a way in which they can keep you suppressed and compartmentalised. The narcs fake self has them Queen/King of their own world
In some cases #casey it's the #narcissist wife who turns his other women into villains because they know and tell the truth about her #bigfatfakemarriage.
When you can see the covert #narcissist for who they really are, the narcissist will hate you and try to "get rid of you" because you can't be fooled by them like the others.
This makes you the "bad guy" and they'll try to convince everyone else not to like you either.
In some instances it's the #narcissist wife who turns his other women into villains because they know and tell the truth about her #bigfatfakemarriage.
Pointing out the truth to a narcissist who lives in a delusion of themselves will only make you the bad guy. They protect their delusions fiercely.
#NarcissisticAbuse
living the fake lie and trying to convince others they are happy.
unless your dream was an "open" relationship and sharing your man with many other women.
#suxtewbu
When the penny drops it goes one of two ways, the target becomes narcissistic too (living the fake lie and trying to convince others they are happy), or they run for the hills.
What feelings do you get when you see a picture of your toxic narcissistic ex?
β¦to kick things off, i get feelings of comical laughter (for how hard they try) and repulsion (for how fake they are) combined into one. A unique feeling!
Narcissists will observe you and take note of your love languages, things/hobbies/interests/people that are important to you, traumas, and triggers so they can use them to manipulate you and crush you with later.