It's SAD how you really can't address things as adults, misunderstandings, things that bother you or hurt you. We Can't talk about it without cutting each other off, raising voices, disrespecting each other. We really losing family, friends, & relationships over Communication skills. Everything labeled as tripping, checking someone, nagging, arguing, back and forth. When really we just want to fix things so everything will be ALL GOOD! For some reason everybody want to play tough.
Life is currently teaching me to be silent and accept what is. People will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth even if your character has already been shown to be solid and you have to (1/2)
STOP CLEARING your name. It's all a distraction. Let people think WHATEVER about you. Cause whether you're winning, losing, or living the lifestyle they want you to you'll still be SOMEBODY'S topic...
Just keep it pushing and remain humble. ✨🥰
I really matured. I don't care to argue. I don't fw drama. I'm really just chilling. I pray for the people who did me wrong. I'm not seeking revenge bc l'll always be blessed regardless! All I care about is my peace, making money & taking care of my loved ones. Be blessed
Adult friendships are hard. Everyone is busy & life happens. I’ve learned you gotta let people know when you’re thinking about them. A simple “thinking of you, hope all is well” really goes a long way.
stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy.
The same way you place that amazon order and trust that it's going to be delivered to you is the same way you should trust that your prayers will be answered. The package may not always come in 2 days, but you KNOW IT WILL come. So have FAITH.
Age 25-30 is crucial. You dealing w/ accepting your group of friends is getting smaller, your parents getting older, cleaning the financial mess from ya early 20s, your career, your health. You gotta find time to heal ya mind. You just have too..