@ozmnmkc @kardiyobey Babamin da ayni sekilde sag kolundan sikayeti vardi, sag kol diyince ciddiye almamistik. Bypass ile cok sukur kurtuldu, size de cok gecmis olsun.
@Muhamme62172037@kardiyobey Babam kalp krizinden 1 gun oncesinde son 1 haftadir cok yorgun uyandigini ve son gunlerde sag kolunun agridigini soylemisti. Sag kol dedigi icin ciddiye almamistik. Bypass ile kurtuldu ama vucuttaki her semptomu ciddiye almali insan :(
When therapists are experienced & comfortable in their role, they don’t use a “therapist voice.” They don't try to sound profound, compassionate or anything else. They don’t sound “like therapists,” they sound like people
Listen to therapist interviews. You can hear it instantly
Psychotherapy cannot undo the past. If we've been abused, neglected, or mistreated, that’s part of our lived experience that cannot be un-lived
However, psychotherapy can help us put the past in the past, so we don't have to 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵
A trauma book I was reading had an interesting claim that indecision is often because the person looks for the approval of an internalized authority figure but is unable to predict what action they would approve of.
People in psychotherapy often quote (glibly?) Winnicott’s claim “It’s a joy to be hidden and a disaster not be found” to try to make the point that being in hiding, not having your emotions seen, is a tragedy. And although that is a tragedy, it is very much the opposite of
This week in therapy ⬇️
Patient: I can’t believe my sibling tried to manipulate not just me, but also my mom... again!
Me: I wonder why you seem so shocked every time someone is being *exactly* who they are.