i treated this one successful young business owner for LHR and it just 40 mins but I LEARNED A LOT FROM HER😍 sukanya business owner yang tak lokek ilmu ni🥹
I was a full-time housewife after married. Raised my kids sampai sekolah. Husband gave me 5 figures monthly. He paid all my bills. When PKP happened everything changed.
He got 90% of pay-cut for nearly 2 years. We used only 10% of saving, because we both agreed that selagi sihat mampu kerja, kita kerja.
That’s the story of me going back to work while he’s taking care of the family 🥲
And I’m so thankful that pandemic happened, not because that I can work, but because he’s now so good at handling house chores and family.
Now we both were kinda back to old life,
My point is kalau ada rezeki, most perempuan lebih prefer jadi housewife and active dengan activity anak-anak.
And roda kehidupan ni bertukar-tukar, pray that the bottom won’t hit you.
If it does, take it and move on. Dugaan datang dengan hikmahnya.
To men, ask yourself, if something happen to you, is your preparation for your family enough?
Kalau mati takpe, kalau cacat seumur hidup? Can your family sustains without your contribution? It sounds harsh, but that’s the reality sebaiknya biarlah both husband and wife boleh sustain the family if you’re not around.
Don’t just talk when you’re alive, but think when you’re dead.
Yes, your family may got all harta and money (e.g hibah). But always remember that to start something is easy. But to sustain is very difficult.
equality! if you can do it, so does he! if u wants to be treated as a queen, starts to treat him as a king. if u want to be appreciated, starts to appreciate him as well. make both of u guys feel included in the relationship.