A lot of the "I had an evil stepmom" stories just sound a lot like "My father let me down".
I really don't think umuntu can be an evil stepmom if your father was standing up for you.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.
so i read a bit on denise zimba’s situation, she divorced jakob bc he allegedly had an affair w her best friend mpumi, was financially/emotionally abusive and she walked in on him masturbating while texting other women w a child in the room. that’s why she kept the kids in SA.
𝗗𝗢𝗪𝗡𝗙𝗔𝗟𝗟 𝗢𝗙 𝗪𝗢𝗪𝗘𝗡 𝗜𝗡 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗗𝗘𝗥𝗦𝗛𝗜𝗣 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗕𝗘𝗡 𝟭𝟬𝘀
Limpopo Premier Dr Phophi Ramathuba has warned women in leadership positions to be cautious about allowing their younger romantic partners, commonly referred to as "Ben 10s", to influence their personal lives and leadership decisions.
Speaking during the official handover of a newly built house to the family of conjoined twins in Lulekani on Wednesday, Ramathuba said the downfall of many women in leadership positions is often linked to the influence of their "Ben 10" partners.
She urged women leaders to remain focused on their responsibilities and not allow personal relationships to interfere with their decision-making or public duties.
🎥: Limpopo Office of the Premier
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- If you lived in the hood in the 2000s can you recall how every Spaza shop was black owned and selling real food to communities? I never fell sick once from counterfeit food. Abo malume/auntie really held us down.
i'm instantly turned OFF by a man who has negative opinions about women in general, even if what he says doesn't apply to me. there's something off about that kind of mindset. misogynistic energy just never sits right with me
Nothing says “702 black” quite like having other people do the ground work while you support from home. The real “mimosa blacks” are the ones supporting comfortably from the couch while calling everyone else “mimosa blacks” for not supporting the march.
I do not believe in having useless men around. if you see a man around me he’s being an asset. i’m very comfortable being alone so it has to make sense or no thanks.
I’ve never been so happy being a yellow bone, no one is stopping us and asking us for our ID’s. I knew our day will come, phantsi ngabo Tall Dark and Handsome phantsi. 🙈🤣🤣
Jenifer Lewis talked to Keke Palmer about her s-x addiction and how has SLEPT with 63 different men, she says she never knew it was a problem and she wish she had known her body was a temple, she reveals she started to REALIZE when the AIDS epidemic hit💀😭
“I slept with 63 men now that was fabulous, i wish i had known my body was a temple, i used to just find a gorgeous man and f-ck the shit out of them”😭
“I would have s-x, s-x was the drug, it wasn’t until when life got real and the AIDS epidemic hit where i went “wait a minute”😂