After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.
Scholars contradict your claim..
If the people of goodness consistently praise someone’s integrity, humility and righteousness, it is a hopeful sign. And if many people are consistently harmed by someone’s character or barely say anything good about it’s spiritually dangerous.
Attended my first Body of Benchers Dinner at Nigerian Law School, a proud and humbling milestone. Grateful for the journey and inspired for what’s ahead. ⚖️✨
#BOBDinner#NigerianLawSchool
Ajokeade et al, you and your band members can keep framing every discomfort women have with polygamy as emotional weakness, lack of tawakkul, over attachment to men, or failure to understand rizq if you want to. The difference between me and you guys is that you will never see me dismiss women who have no reservations or choose to stay orin polygamous marriages. Never. I respect their decision and it is valid.
You guys on the other hand are all the place trying to frame yourselves as the enlightened ones while the rest of us are somehow misguided, spiritually defective, lacking deen, too emotional, too attached, and yada yada. yada. Chai you people are very pathetic 😔
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Bro, these people can’t even bear to think about the fact that their women have been with other men in the past. They worry so much about women’s body counts. They get jealous of every man that was with her before they met her.
These are the same men that want to have more than one wives.
Fucking selfish idiots!
Sorry to the tech bro oh. But if he leaves his wife for cheating, what if the next wife cheats too ? Will he keep divorcing all his wives ? 🥺
This is why our parent’s generation’s marriages were lasting longer. Men prayed for their marriages.
Wallāhi if I stay back after you marry another wife, just know that it's not for love.
Ahhhh may Allah never test me with such because I don't know if I'll be able to stand it.
Knowing that you just came back from another woman's room/house will make you loathe you forever.
Men are extremely calculated when it comes to dating. A man can date you and at first see you as a wife, but you can do one little thing, just one, and that can automatically cross “wife” off in his mind.
The sad part is, he often won’t tell you. He’ll continue dating you even though he no longer sees you that way, because men don’t always view time the same way women do.
The only way to protect yourself is to be on your game as a woman and stay discerning.
Most of our brothers and sisters don't know what to say during Salatul janaaza (Burial prayers): Here is how to pray Salatul Janaaza.
1- After the First Takbeer: Recite Surat Al-Fatiha.
1. Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem
2. Alhamdu lillaahi Rabbil 'aalameen
3. Ar-Rahmaanir-Raheem
4. Maaliki Yawmid-Deen
5. Iyyaaka na'budu wa lyyaaka nasta'een
6. Ihdinas-Siraatal-Mustaqeem
7. Siraatal-lazeena an'amta 'alaihim ghayril- maghdoobi 'alaihim wa lad-daaalleen
i love this saying “until it happens to you, you will think you are very careful, very responsible, very smart, very religious, very mature, very private”
I owe my gratitude to my parents, who paid my school fees and ensured I received an education. Feminism had no role in this; the education I enjoy today is thanks to my parents and the men who built the facilities.
Women have been attending school in Africa since time immemorial
"Feminism is the reason you are able to go to school."
"Feminism is the reason you are using a phone and able to tweet."
"Feminism is the reason you have a job."
No feminist should tell me this rubbish until they go and liberate women in Afghanistan and northern Nigeria!!
wallahi social media has a strong influence on our lives, so use it in a way that after your death, no one has to worry about deleting anything for you
The loyalty you offer in a relationship is for you, not really for your partner. You aren’t doing anybody a favor by being loyal; loyalty is a common trait among people who respect themselves.