Contrary to how you may have been conditioned by people & pain from your past, mistakes are allowed.
We don't have to love making mistakes-- I don't-- but beating the sh*t out of ourselves for mistakes is like crashing the car because we hit a curb.
Grace over guilt.
You also never give the people in your life the chance to learn how to love you better! A huge part of relationships is learning how to treat each other, and giving people the chance to know how to do it better is a huge gift that leads to lots of growth.
hay just ๐ซ๐ซ me already PLEASE this comparison is so unhealthy given the context of why she can't shout out my name the same way i can for her ๐จโ๐ฆฒ๐จโ๐ฆฒ๐จโ๐ฆฒ๐จโ๐ฆฒ
ang galing ni ate sam with unpacking why i kept comparing myself to how vocal and expressive she is with her faves but i don't receive the same compliments as often as i'd like
My specific brain worms can be so funny sometimes because theyโll really be like โYeah this person initiates thoughtful contact with me all the time, but their affect while doing so isnโt blatantly affectionate, so they must dislike me and want me to leave them aloneโ