I honestly respect people who can save money by eating at home. If I have a bad day at work, I’m picking up food. If I have a good day at work, I’m picking up food to celebrate. If I make my own lunch, I’m still picking up food for dinner since I already saved money on lunch.
i flirt but in an autistic way. i'll ask about your interests and maybe try to engage in them. but i also do the same thing when making friends and only i know the difference
This was unnecessarily nasty. India Arie is an unambiguous Black woman who was deemed alt/Neo Soul coming up in a industry that was comfortably colourist and placed the value of female talent on their looks which had a very narrow view. Her song was important and had value
the truth is that when some people know about your unpalatable experiences, they begin to act like they’re doing you a favor by being in your life or doing the bare minimum for you. folks don’t even realize that they do this subconsciously.
bell hooks is a ~controversial~ figure but she cooked when she said a lot of people do not want to deal with the fact that they were not treated lovingly as children and are trying to reconcile that dynamic with what they understand to be love