@__OmO_l @laugh_track_nat@crispy_croquet It is racist and it does negatively affect the black community but the point is that it is still considered a standard in our community. It would be dishonest to say otherwise which is exactly what OP did in his quote tweet.
to the people acting like he is at fault for sitting on the couch, please be serious. having mental health issues no matter how severe they are does not excuse her abusive and narcissistic behaviours. there comes a point where you can no longer put up with the abuse
"gen z are so sex negative" just say teenage girls. teenage girls are uncomfortable with the sexualization and violent sexual fantasies being put upon them by boys and MEN. teenage boys are not "sex negative" they're ruined by porn and internet incels, they're sex obsessive
I have to say something bc I can't hold it in any longer but I can't imagine lowering my so called standards to date someone I once declared as only being worthy enough to partake in on the side...only to get cheated on🧍🏾♀️
I'm so glad I've matured and accepted that if someone does have a desire for a romantic connection, all of the self love and friendship in the world won't make that go away