Most people have never loved a whole person and that's why I really support friends to lovers.
You get to witness how beautifully insane she is before you fall in love with her. You see the emotional spirals, strange habits, intensity, fears, chaos, and somehow you love that version first.
And then something magical happens, over time that same woman slowly transforms into an angel whose heart contains nothing but love, care, devotion, and softness for you. The "batshit crazy" never really disappears cause you loved that part too and it simply becomes integrated, and held within the safety of being deeply loved.
I do not understand why everyone speaks as though they fell in love with a fantasy that suddenly shattered. Did no one actually meet the person before deciding to love them?
seeing the madness, wounds, peculiarities, and saying, "Yes, I know. Come here." Is love.
Perhaps people aren't falling out of love but rather they simply never loved the whole person to begin with.
After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years to achieve hormonal balance, and up to five years to reclaim her identity. Relationships often fail during this period due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they face more challenges than what meets the eye.
True lovers know there is no such thing as someone "better," because love itself is what makes a person irreplaceable.
ofc, if you look around long enough, you will always find someone with better looks, money, higher status, intelligence, or a more impressive rรฉsumรฉ. But they will not be your person, and that is why those comparisons become meaningless.
Love is what transforms ordinary traits into something sacred and it is why his laugh matters more than another man's beauty, why her voice better than another woman's perfection. The person becomes special because they are loved, not the other way around.
That is why if someone loves you primarily for your looks, money, status, or accomplishments, they do not truly love you, because there will always be someone with more. Desire built upon comparison remains trapped within comparison.
love begins when you are loved for being you, and everything else becomes merely complementary. Love chooses, and then makes that choice incomparable.
Genuinely, ZK is just a ship between two people who used to be enemies and went through a long journey to become friends and they are canonically friends for life. The amount of hate is unreasonable when you realise weโre just shipping two canonically good friends.
@ninhawho@Ezaezil_Grey eles tรฃo dizendo que nรณs brasileiros sabemos jogar dentro e fora de campo (no caso o fora de campo seria reconhecer a beleza daquela diva e comentar sobre ou flertar e tals)
i like zutara cause katara doesnโt have to fix zuko and zuko doesnโt have to fix her.
like zuko fixes himself thatโs literally his entire arc like his actual written arc is doing the work himself and katara just needed someone supportive which is zuko like literally in canon