A man with a plan needs a woman who understands that building a life together takes time. This shit doesnโt happen overnight. There will be sacrifices, struggles, and seasons when the money isnโt flowing. If she only believes in you when life is good, she doesnโt believe in you. She believes in your lifestyle.
When a woman is broke, people ask how they can help her. When a man is broke, people ask why he hasn't figured his life out yet. One gets sympathy. The other gets judged for struggling.