When the disappointment is that heavy, you don't even get mad at the person anymore. You get mad at yourself for ignoring your instincts when the red flags were practically screaming.
Cutting people off feels different now. It’s not anger, it’s grief. Like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
if they wanna talk, they will. if they wanna be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don't let things be one sided. it's not healthy and it's not fair to you.
Good people have high levels of empathy, but once that empathy is exhausted, they switch to a state of objective observation. They see you for exactly who you are, without the filter of their love. This is why their anger feels so cold, it is the absence of the warmth you took for granted