Hehehehehhe.
Sebagai orang yang kerja dalam bidang psikologi kekeluargaan ni memang merisaukan tau.
I am afraid because I see society starts to look at children like they are a burden. And apa-apa kita buat untuk anak itu kena dapat reward. And suami seolah-olah WAJIB bagi reward walaupun tak mampu. Sedangkan suami jaga kebajikan dia. Atas sebab tak bagi reward, dicanang satu dunia.
Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun
Being pregnant, go through delivery process is described as "wahn ala wahn". Allah iktiraf kesusahan itu. And parenting is the hardest job I would say. Do you think any human can repay that? Nope. Only Allah can.
Ihsan suami mestilah penting. Dan menjadi isteri/ibu bersyukur juga PENTING.
I pernah jumpa org gini. Nak tahu tak how to fix orang macamni? Yg selalu tanya benda2 kecik. Senang je, u kena stop micromanage /complain/ pertikai apa dia buat.
Mungkin punca dia jadi macam ni sbb u pernah complain kat dia “kenapa ambik bawang besar?” “Kenapa ambik yg tak elok” “U ni tak pandai pilih bawang la, tak elok” etc.
So dia akan rasa apa yg dia buat semua salah dimata u, and in the future ended up jadi apa? Jadi mcm dlm gambar kat bawah ni la. Dia akan suruh you yg buat keputusan sebab nanti you confirm takkan complain dah.
Samala macam memasak, or tolong arrangekan perabot, or bila orang tolong belikan u makanan. Kalau u banyak complain itu ini salah, ended up orang tu akan tak berminat untuk tolong u dah. Kalau tolong pun, dia akan bagi u yg buat decision, sebab dia malas nk kena judge
Kalau org tu buat silap sikit, or benda yg dia buat tu tk kena tekak you. U tutup mata and redakan je. Just nasihat softly and move on. Tak perlu ungkit, tak perlu pertikai lebih2 or pergi malukan dia dekat socmed or kawan2.
Lama2 orang tu akan adjust and learn sendiri.
U nak dorang fikir sendiri, tapi bila dorang fikir sendiri, u tak suka. Nk ikut telunjuk u jugak, lepastu penat sebab asyik jadi “decision maker”. Faham tak maksud i😅
Today I Learned: There is actually a documented constitutional process to remove a Yang di-Pertuan Besar in Negeri Sembilan.
I went to look up how this is actually supposed to work. Back to my
Negeri Sembilan is the only Malaysian state where the ruler is elected, not hereditary.
The Yang di-Pertuan Besar is chosen by the four Undang Luak from Sungai Ujong, Jelebu, Johol, and Rembau.
This tradition goes back to 1773 and follows Minangkabau adat perpatih.
The state constitution is called Undang-Undang Tubuh Kerajaan Negeri Sembilan 1959 or UUTKNS.
Article 10 of the UUTKNS gives the four Undang Luak a prerogative power to suspend or remove the Yang di-Pertuan Besar on specific grounds.
The grounds listed are breach of Syariah law, conviction of a criminal offence, being of unsound mind, contravening the state constitution, or being deemed no longer fit for the position.
Articles 10 to 12 govern the overall process.
Any such action has to go through the Dewan Keadilan dan Undang or DKU.
That is the Council of the Yang di-Pertuan Besar and Ruling Chiefs.
Now, on the current situation.
Per statements from Menteri Besar, the state government's position is that the declaration read by Mubarak Dohak is not recognised.
The reasoning cited is that Mubarak was himself allegedly removed as Undang Luak Sungai Ujong effective 13 May 2025 for 33 alleged offences related to pesaka and adat Telaga Undang, Waris Klana Hulu.
The Dewan Keadilan dan Undang reportedly convened a special sitting at Istana Besar Seri Menanti on 17 April 2026, chaired by Tuanku Muhriz, and accepted Mubarak's removal under Clause 14(3) of the UUTKNS.
Since the constitutional power to invoke Articles 10 to 12 sits with a sitting Undang, the state government says the declaration has no legal standing.
Is there precedent for removing an Undang? Yes.
According to the MB's statement, the 14th Undang Luak Johol, Datuk Mohammad Jan Abdul Ghani, was dismissed on 27 March 2016 for 13 offences related to Luak Johol customs.
That also went through the DKU.
Is there precedent for actually removing a Yang di-Pertuan Besar using Article 10? Based on publicly available records, no.
The mechanism exists on paper but has not been used in modern history.
There have been succession disputes before.
One more interesting detail.
The process for removing a Yang di-Pertuan Agong at federal level, set out in the Third Schedule of the Federal Constitution, was reportedly modelled partly on this Negeri Sembilan system.
The Conference of Rulers has similar prerogative powers nationally as the Undang Yang Empat have at state level.
TIL Malaysia's oldest elected monarchy has a 66-year-old written rulebook for almost every scenario, including this one.
Do you understand how huge is this breakthrough?
Malaysia just dropped B100, the world’s first 100% palm oil biodiesel with zero fossil mix
And Malaysia is the would’s 2nd largest palm oil production powerhouse
This means a small country like Malaysia have the power to boost energy independence with this biodiesel alternative right here
Many people aren’t aware that palm oil is superior to other plant-based oils in many ways. It boost the highest yield per hectare, versatile and renewable
the West has been trying so hard to brainwash and demonise palm oil past decades….
Well, because the West can’t produce any
Let that sink in
Interesting how wars are named after the country attacked: Vietnam War, Iraq War, Afghanistan War, Iran War... That's because if they were named after the attacker, it would be too confusing, since 80% of conflicts would be called the US war.
Everyone felt sad for the penguin walking alone and the monkey rejected by his mother. But this video is far more heartbreaking, yet it didn’t receive the same attention.
Fuh lagi aku bangga jadi rakyat Malaysia
Tak sangka Ekonomi Malaysia sekuat dan sehebat ini
JP Morgan keluarkan analisis yang hanya Malaysia dan China je Negara di Asia yang boleh bertahan dalam krisis bekalan minyak sebab Perang US Iran ni
Kau ToLOL. Terang pun tak guna sbb bodo tu dah membiak stage 4.
Plg kurang kerajaan dpt penjimatan RM1.4 bilion setahun jika perang berlarutan setahun.
Duit itulah nanti nak bantu Kelantan masa banjir nanti.
Berhentilah ikut perangai bani israel. Silap2 depa pun keji kau.
Pep Guardiola perfectly reminds Israel of its place on earth in this video. The most ‘in your face’ situation I have ever seen. Message well delivered to the Israeli dude.
Pep is Spanish. It makes a lot of sense.
🇮🇱 ZIONIST PROPAGANDA EXPOSED
🚨 What the Israeli HOSTAGE said: "When we arrived in Gaza, they first told us they believed in the Quran & would NOT harm us, they fed us well, were kind, a doctor visited us regularly, everything was provided for us.
VS
🚨 What CNN said: ⬇️
Kepada netizen, terutama yg muslim tapi rasa
"KeNaPa KecAm LGBT? DioRaNg Tak KaCaU kitA Pun"
"LOVE IS LovE, BiarLAH DioRaNg"
"It's ThEir HuMan RiGhT"
"BuKaNNya MereKa HinA oRanG IsLam PuN"
Alright😌, let see and read this thread:
#PenghuniTeologi