like i’ve personally always wanted pink hair, there were times where i deemed myself thin enough to have it but i didn’t because my ex didn’t let me. but i feel like if you want an over the top hair color, you have to be thin. it’s just a non-negotiable.
like realistically it’s probably not as big a deal as i’m making it i’m probably blowing it out of proportion but at the same time like .. there are probably some out there that are genuinely ran by men with fetishes. and how am i supposed to know which ones those are