Every now and then, as an individual it is very essential ukuzibambela a private meeting uke uzikhuze and correct yourself on the things you have done wrong.
The kindest thing literature does is remind you that your peculiar little feelings have always existed. Someone, in some century, was equally confused by love, bored by society, tired of performing, and hungry for meaning.
la parte más solitaria de superar algo es cuando por fin dejas de hablar del tema para no aburrir a tus amigos, y todo el mundo asume que ya estás bien, pero tú sigues teniendo la misma guerra en la cabeza en absoluto silencio
i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.
My favorite line from Atomic Habits has been living in my head rent-free:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”
I'm working on becoming a better woman all around. I don't wanna just look good, i wanna feel good. I want my mind, soul and spirit to be cleansed and pure again. I pray that God continues to remove anything that interferes with my growth and overall well-being 🤎
When you get a chance, have that meeting with yourself as a solocation even if it’s just booking in a hotel in your city. Invest in environments that allow you to slow down your mind and sharpen your thoughts, vision and plans. I Highly recommend this as a mental health reset.
i need to actually pull my fucking shit together and focus on everything that's ahead of me, instead of everything i lost. it's not coming back. i have to move on, or else i'll die here, frozen in time where nothing ever changes.
somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop. its very important that you see that journey through
i'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
The Bible says God inhabits the praise of His people. That means when you worship, you are not just making noise. You are creating an atmosphere where God moves. Start praising before the answer comes and watch what happens.