new temp pinned!
🐇 leah, 19! • eng/esp
🩶 she/her/it • any really
⭐️ lesbian!!!! • femme
🎧 switch • hard/soft kinks
✉️ dms open! befriend me!!
i follow back! everything is fantasy and not condoned irl! men and minors dni EVER!!!
- heteronormative ideas of a provider husband and his housewife. it’s 2026 and your job, relationship, and financial dynamic is yours alone! but the idea that the only way a butch can ‘spoil’ their femmes is financially is gross and weird.
i could talk for entirely too long about the trend of people acting like there’s any historical basis for butches being expected to financially provide for their femmes, when in reality femmes were typically more able to get and hold down jobs because of the way they passed -
- for feminine straight women to the average heterosexual, while butches provided and took care of their femmes in other (equally important) ways. it’s silly to me to ignore that this dynamic is one of the ways that butch/femme relationships historically differed from -
people keep confusing masc/fem with butch/femme. masc and fem are presentation styles. butch/femme is a lesbian cultural tradition with its own history, politics, community, and relationship to gender.