unless a mutual jumps into ur dms just to tell you how shitty u are for shipping this and thinking that, u have no right to expect anyone to coddle ur tastes. ur an adult, act like an adult, if u see oomf post something u don't like or agree with just scroll
Overall i think expecting ur mutuals to walk on eggshells and not post their opinions at all is weirdly entitled & u need to learn to stay in ur lane. Staying quiet in dms/servers is nice and respectful, expecting others to tailor their online presence based on ur likes is not