Some men aren't for you.
They don't want to love you properly at all, but at the same time they don't want to let you go.
The more you give to them, the less they unfortunately appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.
So you decide to give them a chance in the hopes they've changed only to realize they only changed for a very short period of time.
You finally find the strength to walk away and here he comes again, proclaiming his love for you.
What a lot of people don't understand is that if a man shows anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn't proof of love at all.
A man trying to flatter you or making weak attempts to be "nicer" for a couple weeks isn't proof that he's trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again.
Lets put it this way....
If you take a childs toy away from them, the child begins to cry.
Same goes for the relationship... If you take away a relationship of convenience, a man begins to cry. Just because he cries doesn't mean you give him what he wants.
Stop listening to what your man keeps promising you and start watching what his actions keep telling you.
A lot of women don't know what its like to be loved by a real man.
You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment.
Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love actually is.
Love isn't promising to act right after he gets caught screwing up time and time again.
Love is him acting right from the very beginning because he doesn't want to lose you because he knows how truly special you are.
Love isn't telling your grown man he needs to advice and choose to be loved properly and always no matter what.. remember your worth.
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Imara steel did not come to play with KRA.
There is a company called Imara steel. They cook metals to make mabati in Industrial Area, Nairobi.
In 2022, as they were busy cooking metals,
KRA was busy cooking their tax bill at Times Tower.
When KRA was done, what came out was 3.9B.
This bill covered 5 years.
- 2015, 2016, 2017,2018, 2019
Next morning, KRA airdropped the bill to Imara steel email.
When the director arrived at the office, the accountant stormed in. Akamsalimia. Then served him the bill even before chai.
The director looked at the numbers. He could not believe it. He thought his magnifying glasses were magnifying the numbers. He removed them.
He saw the same mad numbers live live.
• 3.9B.
He went nuts.
• Lesson 1: Never allow your accountant into your office before the tea person.
Director ordered the accountant to turn the fans on. There is no electricity. He is now worked up proper.
The accountant sneaked out.
And immediately embarked on a fault finding mission.
He came back with disturbing findings:
1. KRA was out of time for 2015 and 2016. Those years were beyond the 5 year statutory audit limit. Unless there is fraud. KRA had shown no fraud.
2. KRA had assumed 23% profit margins. Figures Imara had never achieved.
Wakasema baas. This is it.
They wrote an objection / protest letter to KRA. Explained everything. And demonstrated they had paid taxes to the last cent.
KRA could not hear any of it. They only wanted 3.9B.
In June 2022, KRA rejected the objection. And confirmed Imara must pay the 3.9B.
All this time, the accountant is not sleeping nor eating.
Amekanyanga tu wire.
Then something interesting happened.
KRA sent the rejection letter to the wrong email. And never realized.
So 60 days passed. No response is received from KRA.
Imara knew the law. If KRA does not respond within 60 days, your protest is deemed accepted.
They knew they had won. Director called the party.
Six months later, in Dec 2022, KRA came back with threats. We want the 3.9B. Pay or we freeze your bank accounts.
Imara responded: Guys, but you accepted our objection.
KRA said: Noo. We rejected it and emailed you. Here is the proof. Pay us up ASAP.
Imara looked at it and said: Guys, that is not our email.
Everyone at Times tower got shocked. How did that happen?
KRA said: OK the email was wrong. But tax is yours. Lipa.
As KRA is doing all this, they are unaware of two dangerous sentences in Kenyan tax law.
They read:
• KRA cannot audit past 5 years without proving fraud
• KRA must respond to objections within 60 days
Imara ran to court.
- Argued it cannot pay tax on rejection notices served out of time.
The tax appeal tribunal agreed the rejection letter was communicated to Imara out of time. But still asked Imara to bring fresh evidence to dispute the tax.
Later the Tribunal ruled the evidence was not enough.
• Imara was ordered to pay 3.9B.
KRA retreated to Times Towers celebrating.
Imara ran straight to the high court.
- It argued that it cannot pay tax out of rejection notices served to them out of time.
The judge looked at the case.
Then invoked the 2 dangerous sentences. You remember them?
- No audits beyond 5 years without fraud
- No rejection after 60 days
The judge sided with Imara.
- Imara was ordered to pay nothing.
- And KRA was ordered to pay legal costs to Imara.
Case closed.
Lesson 2.
• Everyone needs an accountant trained kukanyanga wire.
• KRA cannot audit beyond 5 years without proving fraud.
• If KRA misses the 60 days, call the party. You have won.
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