@Pearl_Gunner@BalogunSonia4@ZuluMariachi They both created the child, so it’s both of their responsibility to build and maintain a relationship with that child. You make time for who and what you truly want, and your child should come before anything else.
@Pearl_Gunner@BalogunSonia4@ZuluMariachi Unless you have a child and have actually been in that situation, you can’t place all the blame on the mother for a father’s lack of effort when it comes to his child.
@Pearl_Gunner@BalogunSonia4@ZuluMariachi A mother usually only keeps the child away when the father shows no sign of wanting to be involved, consistent, or present in the child’s https://t.co/k9rt1IsZm6 you can’t only fault the mom when the father is at fault as well. He could go to court & fight if thats the case.
@Pearl_Gunner@BalogunSonia4@ZuluMariachi At the end of the day you’re not doing it for the mom. If he chooses not to build a relationship with his child that’s on him. That’s not the mother’s fault. There are women who live in a different state, and the dad still shows up, still calls, still communicate.
@Pearl_Gunner@BalogunSonia4@ZuluMariachi Not all women are bitter tho. If a father is allowing the mother of his child to be the reason he can’t see his kid then he honestly just doesn’t want to. If a father really wanted to be in his child’s life, he would do what it takes to be in his child’s life.
@Pearl_Gunner@BalogunSonia4@ZuluMariachi There are fathers out there who choose to move on, have other kids, and decide that building a relationship with the child who doesn’t live with them isn’t important. Instead, focus only on the children they see every day. Kids deserves effort, love, and consistency from both.
Happy Mother’s Day to myself for every sleepless night, every silent sacrifice, every flaw, and every moment I still chose love. I may not be a perfect mother, but I am a loving one, and that is enough. 🤍
Happy mother’s day to all mom in the world🥰