@Hana_bob_ @TimeLordtea@boundbyliv I think the problem is that to me, OP looks like they’re coming from a place of frustration and their comments seem extremely mild compared to Stephy & co. Again, it doesn’t excuse anything from either side, but it just seems like everyone here came out of the gate swinging.
@Hana_bob_ @TimeLordtea@boundbyliv And Stephy’s lobotomy comment was so uncalled for, even if OP did make a comment to b.binding. Now the rest are bringing up random drama from IG and still not conceding the point of the thread, its just a bad look :/
@Hana_bob_ @TimeLordtea@boundbyliv When I came across this thread, it quickly devolved into a bunch of people dogpiling and completely ignoring the point, and then ignoring your statement, so I guess I kind of can’t blame OP for reacting the way they did?
@Hana_bob_ @TimeLordtea@boundbyliv You are and I appreciate that you’re taking the time & care to do so. i don’t know the whole IG drama; but from what OP said above and the fact that no receipts have been provided, it does look petty, as you said. Petty and unfounded 🤷♀️
@Hana_bob_ @TimeLordtea@boundbyliv They’re strawmanning hard over something that could have been resolved twenty comments ago when you respectfully took accountability and handled it professionally.
@bambiispots@gthcowboy@TimeLordtea Where did OP defend that?
Separate issue though, Stephy’s shit joke isn’t excusable either. OP made a comment about the other girl’s book and suddenly we’re making KYS jokes? You’re strawmanning so hard it’s embarrassing 💀 over something Hana already handled with grace.
@boundbyliv@TimeLordtea What kind of a response are you fishing for? Are you literally this dense or just trolling I honestly can’t tell.
Hana already apologized and took accountability, and her and OP are good; and you’re acting like a clown because…?
@Hana_bob_ your response to the situation was respectful, and it’s being undermined by this shit.
Stephy, what the actual fuck is wrong with you? If OP’s comment was bullying, this is a full on ableist threat.
@boundbyliv@letthemeatbooks@TimeLordtea She didn’t post it publicly though, it’s clearly behind a paywall in the screenshot. Not sure what there even is to “correct” OP about.
Also it seems like they have history so 🤷♀️ two wrongs don’t make a right, but it kind of seems like OP has a right to be pissed.
Truly. This thread is wild, the mental gymnastics alone. Fanbinders really are a different breed. Just admit you made a mistake and move on? Don’t die on this hill sis.
@B__Binding @TimeLordtea@letthemeatbooks @Hana_bob_ OP isn’t dragging her for having a Patreon page; she took information given to her for free by a colleague and paywall’d it? That is the issue.
DAS didn’t do that, as far as I’m aware. Also they are not equals, DAS has 30+ years of experience! What is this nonsense?