fathim

Ouch!

[vyooo @vyowiz_]

Menurut psikologi, cewek yang suka ngelakuin semuanya sendiri dan susah minta tolong bukan selalu karena dia hebat atau super mandiri.
Bisa jadi, ada pengalaman masa lalu yang bikin dia terbiasa buat gak bergantung sama siapa pun.
Mungkin waktu kecil, setiap kali dia minta tolong, dia pernah disindir, dimarahi, dianggap merepotin, atau dibuat ngerasa bahwa kebutuhannya adalah beban buat orang lain.
Akhirnya, tanpa sadar otaknya belajar:
"Jangan susahin orang lain. Kamu harus bisa ngelakuin semuanya sendiri kalau gak mau terluka."

[Han🍀 @0xhanyfa]

Semalem gue baru belajar istilah baru

Kalian pernah denger “duck syndrome” gak?

Duck syndrome itu kondisi pas seseorang keliatannya santai, hidupnya aman2 aja. Padahal aslinya lagi capek, banyak tekanan, burnout, sama stres yang dipendem sendiri.

Kenapa dianalogiin sama bebek?

[Handoko Tjung @handokotjung]

3 stages of grief:

Sad.
Sadder.
Sadar.

[Kia 🩷 @xevekiah]

One night I asked my mom how she knew my dad was “the one.” She didn’t say butterflies. She didn’t say grand gestures.

She said, “There was a year I wasn’t okay.”

She told me after I was born, she felt overwhelmed all the time. She stopped talking as much. Stopped laughing as loudly. She said she felt guilty for not being her usual self.
And my dad didn’t demand the “old her” back.

He just started doing small things.

He would wake up earlier to pack her lunch.
He’d fold the laundry without announcing it.
He’d sit beside her on the couch and just hold her hand without asking a single question.

She said one night she finally cried and told him she felt like she was failing at everything.

He didn’t interrupt.
Didn’t give a motivational speech.
Didn’t say “but you have so much to be grateful for.”

He just listened.

And the next week?
He didn’t treat her like she was fragile.
Didn’t bring it up during arguments.
Didn’t use it as proof that she was “too emotional.”

He loved her the same. Calm. Steady. Normal.

My mom looked at me and said,
“That’s when I knew. Love isn’t the loud days. It’s who stays gentle on the quiet ones.”

And suddenly their 20+ years together made sense.

Real love doesn’t panic when you’re not at your best.
It adjusts.
It waits.
It stays.

[Juru Gambar👨‍🎨 @alvinxki]

Gue pernah jg, beli pensil warna di Tokped 1,5 jtan. Tbtb ditelfon bapak2, katanya dr JNE, gara2 ada kerusakan kebakaran di gudang. Dia nyebutin resi, nama, alamat, dan nominal harga barangnya (persis angkanya) katanya mau direfund 100% + 30% biaya ganti rugi. Wow banyak. Tergiur

[ʂαʂαα || ENHYPEN IS 7❗ @prkjngs0ng_]

ga tau knpa sedikit iri (bohong) when ada orng yg birthday trus story ig nya full ucapan birthday, i always hope to get that on my birthday. but i cant.

[🥀🥀 @kindofmeem]

I just really never thought I’d see these words together

[fathim @fathmnr]

@rakhazainp Belum pernah hahaha

[fathim @fathmnr]

@rakhazainp Cilor juga ga

[erika @yeeeerika]

i said it was my favorite movie i didn't say it was good

[𝒶rα˚˖𓍢ִ໋ @yslmammi]

NORMALIZE CHANGING YOUR OPINION ON SOMETHING AFTER LEARNING NEW INFORMATION. ITS OKAY. I PROMISE.

[iya ★ @hotmessjunk]

I’M SORRY might get cancelled for saying this but the life of a showgirl sounds like it’s been copied from somewhere? idk just the beat, lyrics, all of it. its so familiar. i just can’t pinpoint exactly where i’ve heard it? wait, figured it out, it sounds like album of the year

[the elusive sniffer @shandya]

Pro tips: kalo mau tau tempat hits terkini di kota Bandung, jangan nanya orang Bandung, tanya orang Jakarta.

[yura @ayuraaputri]

‼️SYAFILAH RAHMANIYAH BUKAN PENIPU‼️
THREAD KLARIFIKASI PENIPUAN TIKET TAYLOR SWIFT.
Halo guys, beberapa hari lalu teman saya datanya disebar oleh korban penipuan tiket TS. Setelah diselidiki, ternyata teman saya BUKAN penipu dan justru jadi korban pencurian data.

[Lily @busanonni]

Friendly reminder, orang-orang di Gaza minum aja susah banget sampai mereka ambil air minum dari becek-becekan di jalan saking susahnya cari air. Mereka pada sakit karena minum air kotor. Banyak yang sakit dan meninggal karena kelaparan juga.

[Threadmaker 🐣 @dinikopi13]

Akhirnya mengerti kenapa Taylor Swift berhati-hati banget sama produksi konser tur dunianya

dan ternyata cuma beberapa negara doang yang bisa ngikutin BM produksi dia

#TSTheErasTourFilm
- SEBUAH ANALISA -

[Dr. Irvan Kartawiria @Pak_Irv]

Dear Sherina,

I know it's been 23 years, tapi..

Mengapa bintang bersinar? Karena energi dari reaksi fusi

Mengapa air mengalir? Karena shear force mengatasi gesekan

Mengapa dunia berputar? Karena residual momentum yg terjaga oleh gravitasi

Mudah-mudahan cukup jelas ya 🙏

[fathim @fathmnr]

@HirdaaNov Aku masih tim gebetan nyebutnya🙋🏻‍♀️

[Kementerian Keuangan RI @KemenkeuRI]

Nota Keuangan dan RUU APBN TA 2024 sudah disampaikan kepada @DPR_RI hari ini.

Ke mana arah kebijakan #UangKita tahun depan?

Simak penjelasan #MenkeuSMI dalam Konferensi Pers Nota Keuangan & RUU APBN 2024.