ask a 🔁❌ what they think of the bottom of their fav ship and they will come up with a kind of homophobia misogyny and gender roles that havent been seen or heard since the middle ages
butchfemme didn't survive decades of queer persecution just for the new generation to turn it into a reactionary gender roleplay where butches are expected to serve and femmes are expected to sit pretty. we have a history worth understanding beyond stereotypes.
the bimbofication of the femme identity is a real fucking problem. femmes are providers, carers, speakers, defenders, loud and proud. they are not whiny brats who need a butch to function in life. as a butch I can tell you nothing fills my chest more than a femme who takes the -