Always wanting to leave the relationship at any small misunderstanding and now the relationship has officially ended now it feels like the world should just end already cuz the pain is too much 😭🥹💔
Top kisser!! Been a top kisser all my life.
I kissed this guy one time and mid-kiss I realized…
Oh. This one is a top kisser too.
Naturally I switched to bottom because I don’t like it .
He switched back to top.
I switched again. He switched again.
We were rotating positions. And that’s when I knew.
This is the kind of man that wants to be babied.
Because to me, being a bottom kisser is real control. You’re the one regulating the whole situation.
You control the pace.
You decide how the warmth spreads.
Bottom kisser is the lead.
But this man insisted on being top.
Meaning he wanted me to be the one creating all the heat and warmth.
Ohhh.
So you don’t want to generate warmth.
You want to feel warm.
You want to stand there and be handled.
Princess tendencies.
From that one kiss I saw the future.
And in that future, I was doing manual labor.
Never again. 😭
"stay with them through ups & downs."
downs are NOT:
-cheating
-disrespect
-abuse: verbal, mental, physical, spiritual
-manipulation
-gaslighting
-control
downs are:
-financial hardships
-health issues
-tragic death/injury
-rough points in a relationship (arguing, lack of
intercourse, losing the "spark")
-trouble keeping/finding individuality in a relationship
stop normalizing putting yourself through trauma trying to prove to somebody that you love them
So your friend confided in you and was soliciting for help and all you could do is it bring it to the media for us to do what? Some of you are not real people 🥹🤦♂️
I am leaving Christianity…🙁🙁🙁🙁
Yes, you heard me right. I’ve been wrestling with this for a long time, and today I’m finally letting it out.
I am leaving Christianity because of the following “serious” issues:
I can’t even live my old life in peace anymore. Christianity has ruined it completely.
Anytime I try to tell a simple, innocent lie, the Holy Spirit starts convicting me. Next thing you know, I’m confessing like someone under investigation.
Why is the Holy Spirit always trying to guide me to the right path when all I want is to misbehave in peace?
Why did God become a man to take the punishment I deserve? Who told Him to love me that much?
Why did God humble Himself lower than an angel just because of me? What’s my business? Am I not allowed to stay useless in peace?
Why is God so consistent with His message that He left no loophole for me to find fault? At least make small mistake so I can argue!
Why did Jesus live a sinless life and then tell us to be like Him when I can’t even go 24 hours without sinning? How is that fair?
Why does God want me to love my enemies when I’m still struggling to love myself?
Why did Jesus say “turn the other cheek” when what I really want is to return slap with interest?
Why is God offering me eternal life for free just by believing in Christ? Why can’t I really hard for it? Why so generous?
Why does Christianity want me to stop gossiping and living a hypocritical life when that was literally my talent?
Christianity has made me understand love too much. Now I’m here loving everybody like a malfunctioning robot, help!
It even stripped me of my pride. I used to be proudly proud for no reason. Now I’m humble like someone applying for visa.
Honestly, Christianity must be false, because it has taken away all the nonsense I enjoyed and replaced it with peace, joy, and salvation that I didn’t even work for.
So yes… after deep reflection,
I am officially leaving Christianity… to become a TRUE Christian.