As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s hurtful and manipulative, and it’s not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
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Rape culture is so normalised that a few days ago, I heard a guy talking to his friends about a female friend of his. She had seen his WhatsApp status where he went out and was surprised that there were actually places to hang out in this state, so she asked him about it. He then asked if she’d like to go out sometime, and she agreed.
This boy then went on to say that he would take her to a club, and after that, he would take her to a lodge, and if she “dares,” she should refuse him or “not open her legs.” What shocked me even more was that his friends didn’t say anything. No one sounded surprised or uncomfortable, like this was just a normal thing to say.
I was so appalled that I had to say something, so I told him plainly that what he was describing is rape.
He looked confused and asked what I meant, saying, “Why would you go out with a guy and not expect to do anything?” His friends even turned to me and asked if I would go out with a guy without expecting him to have sex.
I asked him if he was going to ask for her consent before doing anything, and he said no. I then asked if he would at least be honest beforehand and tell her that he expects sex before taking her to a lodge, and again he said no. According to him, he would wait until they were alone in the room at night and then ask her for it. And if she later says she doesn’t want to, he “knows what to do about
This is exactly how rape culture shows up the stupid entitlement and a complete disregard for consent.
Things you will never hear me say:
1. How to keep a man
2. Feminine ways to.
3. Stop acting like a woman
4. women are emotional
5. Pregnancy is easy
6. I can take your man
8.Wash your p*ssy with apple juice so it smells like fruit
9. A woman’s role is cooking and cleaning
💯. When a Man beats another man, it's a criminal act. No one asks the context. It's just seen as a criminal act.
But when it's a woman or children on the receiving end of those beatings.l, suddenly society finds excuses in culture, contexts etc. All utter nonsense!
Funny how most restaurants are full of male chefs but at home it’s magically a woman’s job. Basically when it’s an unpaid job, it’s for women and suddenly when it’s profitable, it’s for men.
April is C-section awareness month.
And I would like to share the most absurd form of discrimination/ judgement, on C-section. I have heard someone call women who had C-section:
lazy, not having a strong waist. Not woman enough. Didn't give birth. Opt for the roof.
This one shocked me, because it wasn't targeted at the mother but at the children. This woman was calling her mates children "knife children" that they not normal and evil. The mate stopped talking to her because of it.
@bethabetter It is the audacity to detect to a woman how she should act or what she should do with her body. This woman was traumatized, so
she should keep a lifelong reminder of this horrible experience 🤦🏼♀️