Just a reminder; Men were only afforded the ability to build anything at all because they had women doing the silent, unpaid labor of keeping the house, washing their clothes, caring for the children and also the elders, etc.
@FabrizioRomano@Secret_Citizen1 He literally just broke the all-time World Cup scoring record against Austria today and is acting like he just finished a casual Sunday league match.
Just a reminder; Men were only afforded the ability to build anything at all because they had women doing the silent, unpaid labor of keeping the house, washing their clothes, caring for the children and also the elders, etc.
my fiancé wants to invite his ex to our wedding. they dated for 3 years, broke up 4 years ago, and he says they’re “just friends now,” still get lunch sometimes, she’s friends with his sister too
i said i wasn’t comfortable with her being there. not bc i think anything’s going on, i actually believe him about that
i just don’t want to look out at our wedding and see someone he used to build a whole future with, sitting there, watching us start ours
he says cutting her out makes me look insecure and that he shouldn’t have to lose a friendship bc of my feelings
i say there’s a difference between losing a friendship and just not having her at THIS one specific event
his mom thinks i’m being unreasonable. my mom thinks i’m being completely reasonable
we’re not fighting exactly. we’re just stuck
he keeps saying if i trusted him this wouldn’t be an issue. i keep saying trusting him has nothing to do with what i’m comfortable with on my own wedding day
neither of us is backing down
When a nice guy turns bitter because he didn’t get what he wanted, it was never about being nice, it was about control disguised as goodness. Real kindness doesn’t keep score or expect rewards. It respects choice even when the answer is no. Love given with conditions isn’t love at all. It’s manipulation wrapped in a smile.