Healthy relationships don't just happen. They take work, vulnerability, and a willingness to get past our own ego. Many people have been sold a false, romanticized version of love that we meet the "right" person and everything falls into place.
The mother wound shows up as: fear of being seen, not trusting people in relationships, body hatred, or a belief that your worth comes from what you achieve or how well you perform.
@mckaylaknows Prime example of don’t be with someone if they dim your light n don’t understand ur quirks , should be with someone who accept u for who u are even if it’s not socially approved or called weird by other ppl, real love is free not controlling
@DailyLoud Parents need to listen because if it reaches this stage- you’ve already lost ! When she becomes an adult she will automatically disconnect then you’ll be confused as to why she never gets in contact ? You didn’t listen when it mattered.
Not enough people talk about the cocoon stage of healing
It's that pull to disappear, be alone, and spend time actually getting to know who you are
Are you in the cocoon stage?👇
Healthy relationships don’t feel like “fairy tales.” They’re built through uncomfortable conversations, emotional vulnerability, and grace for each other’s humanness. Healthy relationships take work and a willingness to step outside of our ego.
If you show frustration or anger through: sighing, giving the silent treatment, or making sarcastic comments—this is a passive aggressive communication style.
You might say “I’m fine” when asked if you’re upset.
Here’s why 🧵: