date sweet men. men who communicate instead of shutting down. men who can articulate their feelings. men who are soft spoken, calm, patient, kind, and gentle with you. men who respect you, themselves & know how to control themselves. men who make you feel safe, not anxious
nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art. the eye contact, the gentle touch, deep convo, holding hands, mutual support, hugging, non sexual massages, cooking a meal together, shared experiences, cuddles, curiosity, silence feels warm. i can go on an on about this
And yk what? I am a yearner. I do listen to music thinking about us, I do look forward to every time I get to see you, I do look at pictures of us, and I replay our conversations in my head.