I am desired and loved, despite my flaws and all that I lack. Despite my lack of achievement, I am valued.
Despite your consensus on my appearance and subsequent value, I am held tenderly and fought for.
If it triggers you that I have 'nothing' yet I am worthy of love, go heal.
When you touch a cat's ear, it feels like you are touching the petal of a rose. I think God may have made them from the same material. It is all very beautiful
I have this theory that one of the reasons men are “falling behind” is that husbands can’t steal their wives ideas/work and then have her institutionalized/lobotomized like they used to.
There is no such thing as a "free" anything if you're a woman. When someone buys you a drink at a bar and you accept, there is a social imperative to have a conversation with that person, and if you don't actually want to, that is time and energy you have to exchange for that "free" $12 drink. The more expensive the "free" thing, the more likely that sex or a relationship in return is the expectation, which costs the woman attention, energy, and capacity.
In sum - "free" anything in exchange for your beauty isn't truly free, but has a social cost.
Getting sick and tired of you guys telling me I have to live with shit just because it exists. I don’t have to live with exclusively digital media, airborne pathogen ridden air, unrestricted generative AI, none of it. Y’all succumb to any and everything. Weak
no shade it’s actually scary how many people think misogyny has to present itself as extreme hatred of women and violent rhetoric for them to consider it as such. casual misogyny is dangerous precisely because it often presents itself as normal, harmless, or “just a joke”
We really CANNOT have sustainable energy because it threatens the oil industry. We cannot have healthcare because it threatens insurance. We cannot have peace because it threatens the weapons industry. Capitalism built a system where doing the right thing is treated like bad business.
Some people spent so much of their lives trying to survive that they never got the chance to learn how to swim, speak a foreign language, play an instrument, travel, or simply explore life beyond work and responsibilities. That’s a side of poverty we rarely talk about.
in case you didn’t know, butter pecan ice cream exists because Black people in the South weren’t allowed to eat vanilla ice cream in public..because it was white ... so they added butter nd some pecans to it to make it acceptable for them to eat in public.
Just a little reminder on this Juneteenth,and remember that, when you’re eating butter pecan ice cream: the thousands of different acts of resistance, both great nd small, that black folks have had to use to overcome the scourge of white supremacy always ...
Imagine if women counted men failing to give them orgasms as "withholding sex." Imagine if they considered a lack of orgasms justification to cheat. Men are failing to realize just how considerate women actually are, while demanding more.