لَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِٱللَّٰهِ ٱلْعَلِيِّ ٱلْعَظِيمِ
(lā ḥawla wa-lā quwwata ʾillā bi-llāhi l-ʿaliyyi l-ʿaẓīmi)
"There is no power nor strength except by Allah the Lofty, the Great"
Some days feel heavier than others. But remember: every step you take today, even the small ones, is building towards your bigger goals, whether it’s saving for your business, gaining more experience, or simply proving to yourself how resilient you are.
Your responsibilities are yours alone. No one owes you anything. Don’t expect anything from anyone but the Almighty. That way, you won’t be disappointed. Free your heart from ill feelings towards others. Depend only on Him. Indeed, He is sufficient for us.
I believe a good woman will always win in the end. She'll get her love & apology. She'll get her ring & her husband. She'll get her bag & her happiness. A good woman with a good heart will always win in life. And a smart man is smart enough to keep a good woman in his life >>
empathy burnout is real. after all these years of understanding the people around you, trying to put yourself on their situation, putting others first before you, and now you're drained & have became indifferent.
Yakin dengan kata-kata ini :
"Setiap kebahagiaan yang kamu berikan kepada orang lain akan kembali kepadamu bahkan dengan kebahagiaan yang lebih indah."
Most of the time before we get the guy/girl, we studied a lot about them.
We trying to know what's their favourite colour, their favourite food etc.
But once we get them (e.g. married), we often stop the process of learning because we thought we already win.
But the thing is, it shouldn't be like that.
If the amount of learning that we do to our loved one is like getting a SPM level education,
Then, we should keep on learning until we get a degree, a master and ultimately, a PhD of learning about our loved ones.
Even until then, keep on learning and working on the marriage.
Falling in love is not a point or a destination.
It's a journey that we have to keep doing through out the life together.
Keep falling in love with the same person over and over again.
Refresh the love, don't let it turn into an auto pilot of marriage.
Sebab itu wujudnya pepatah,
"Bercinta sampai syurga."
Mendalam maksudnya, kalau kita betul-betul kaji ayat itu.