INSTEAD OF WATCHING AN HOUR OF NETFLIX TONIGHT.
This 1-hour Stanford lecture by Joel Peterson will teach you more about negotiation and getting what you want than most people learn in years.
Bookmark it and give it an hour, no matter what.
MY FRIEND APPLIED TO 87 REMOTE JOBS ON LINKEDIN. ZERO RESPONSES. ZERO INTERVIEWS.
Then I showed him 12 hidden remote job websites and he got 7 interview invites in 11 days.
Here are the 12 sites and exact filters we used:
MY FRIEND APPLIED TO 87 REMOTE JOBS ON LINKEDIN. ZERO RESPONSES. ZERO INTERVIEWS.
Then I showed him 12 hidden remote job websites and he got 7 interview invites in 11 days.
Here are the 12 sites and exact filters we used:
Pay attention to your life. Pay attention to what you do, how you think, and where you are—because every situation you’re in is not random.
Everything happens for a reason.
Nothing in this world unfolds without meaning or purpose.
DEALING WITH A WOMAN'S DRAMA
Know this:
Women are performers, and you, the man, are the audience.
They are addicted to their performance. It hooks them onto a loop of dopamine gush.
The performance is cyclical.
Calm, then silent, then inquisitive, then drama, then a storm, then calm again. It is a cycle. It is a test. It is a performance.
It is a biological performance scripted deep in their DNA for survival.
The performance is a circus full of suspense, terror and symphony.
It never stops.
The circus is an archaeology, where she digs deep into the history of your emotions to evoke your response, just like an actress on stage pulls you into her performance by pricking your emotions.
So, women are in a circus, which is a tranquillising drug that masks their flaws.
They are terrified to face their flaws; therefore, they engineer a circus that keeps them in a loop of self-validation.
"You are narcissistic."
"You hate me."
"You are emotionally unavailable."
"You are toxic."
"I hate you."
She is looking for social proof to crucify your frame and make you crumble in fear.
She is seeking public sympathy for herself and using it to tarnish your character and personality.
She wants you to crumble.
But refuse to crumble.
The public lynching will fizzle and she will be left alone, in her cloud of smoke, the darkness of her shadow and the coldness of your silence.
Don't join her circus. Refuse.
Don't be drawn into her puppetry; you will become her puppet.
The solution is to exit the circus. It makes her mad, chaotic, angry and livid.
"Why is this man not talking?"
"Why is he quiet?"
"He hates me."
"Am I ugly?"
"Am I not beautiful to him anymore?"
Switch off the button of attention and watch her burn in rage.
Let her self-inflicted fire consume her as her emotions burn into smoke.
Your silence is a mirror that forces her to look deep into her shadows.
She will cower in shame and guilt.
This terrifies her and will turn her into a helpless child begging for your armour of love.
She will beg for the tranquilliser that keeps her euphoric in her loop of dopamine gush.
She will squirm like an infant craving its mother's nipple.
But remain calm like a mountain in a storm.
When she builds a storm, remain unbowed, and she will forever respect your blood, bones, soul and frame.
Don't entertain disrespect.
Stay hard!
Men,
If your in-laws call you stingy, wear it with pride.
It's better stingy than foolishly generous to the wrong people.
You didn’t marry their daughter to feed their greed.
Continue being stingy.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
A man who pays college fees for a woman is a lost man.
He is a man sunk in masculine paralysis.
He is sick.
Diverting your financial resources to fund the lifestyle of a woman instead of using the money to create wealth is mental sickness.
You will suffer in the end.
I am not giving up on MEN,
I won't give up.
We have been demeaned, belittled, and our dignity and pride taken away from us.
We won't relent.
We must all get better together or perish as fools.
Men,
At the end of the day,
The people you were entertaining will abandon you when all goes down.
They will say, "Did we ask you to entertain us?"
You will discover that you are alone.
So, focus on your purpose.
A MAN has himself, and that is enough.
#MasculinitySaturday
@sasb974 @AtemMindset @PathOfMen_ Do a workout.,🏋🚴💪🏋🚴💪 and stress your body for at least an hour each day. Also Try taking Hot drinking Chocolate an hour before you sleep. Thank me later.
When I meet men my age who look like they will give birth in the next 3 weeks, I appreciate my journey of living a healthy lifestyle.
A man shouldn't walk around with a potbelly.
That is a lack of discipline and self-respect.
UNFAT!
#BetterTogether
Once you lose your influence e.g. status, fame or a job,
Your phone will go silent.
The many calls you were used to receiving, until you muted your ringtones, suddenly die.
The calls you were ignoring are not there anymore.
The message inbox becomes dry.
You change your ringtone from "silent" to "sound with vibration" so that you don't miss any ringing,
- But nobody is calling,
That is when it hits you that the people who were surrounding you with choruses of praises, were just people.
They already shifted their allegiance to the next influential person.
They were there because of what they were gaining from your influence, not you.
You become forgotten as fast as you rose to the position you just lost.
Therefore,
If you are still in a position of influence,
Remain modest.
Use your influence to support someone's life.
Become the candle in someone's dark moments.
Refuse to be proud and arrogant.
Ignore your haters. Don't respond to insults.
Most importantly, don't vomit on the shoes of those beneath you.
You will one day borrow their shoes to cross the bridge of your rock-bottom.
Men,
If you accept your wife to call you "babe" you have failed the first test of fatherhood.
She should call you "Dad" or "Daddy" in public or private.
She will call you "My husband" when talking about you.
That's how you set the tone of your marriage.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
This tweet is for the man looking for an opportunity
- Job
- Internship
- Volunteering
- Mentorship
Reply with your skill, qualification, education or experience.
One of my followers would be interested to engage you or employ you.
RT widely.
#MasculinitySaturday