The true mind can weather all the lies and illusions without being lost. The true heart can tough the poison of hatred without being harmed. Since beginningless time darkness thrives in the void, but always yields to purifying light.
@VERITY_HQ And let's not forget the men... alot of men enjoy their youth as well in a situation that you know since it's gonna be as men and not women then end up old and most of their efforts wasted or nothing much to show for at the end of the day.
When a woman truly loves you, she will fix her attitude, her tone, her habits, anything that risks losing you. Not because you begged her. But because the thought of hurting you or watching you walk away matters more to her than protecting her pride.
Real love makes her reflect. It makes her mindful of how her words land, how her actions affect you, and how she can show up better.
A woman who truly loves you will never stay comfortable in behavior that causes you pain.
She chooses peace with you over being right by herself. 💔🤌🏼✌🏽️
My dear Christian sisters, let me talk to you! Show me where the Bible says:
“Husband shall carry the entire financial load alone while the wife presses phone and says ‘Amen’.”
The Bible calls the man the head of the home, not the sole provider. We love quoting “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church…”
But the moment we reach Proverbs 31, many suddenly lose network.
That Proverbs 31 woman was not lazy. She was hardworking, wise, profitable, and a blessing to her household. She bought and sold. She supported her husband. She didn’t just pray, she worked.
Marriage is not “Husband, suffer alone while I supervise from the bedroom.” Two people entered the marriage. Two people should build it.
Even the virtuous woman contributed. She didn’t sit and wait for manna from heaven while her husband fainted from bills.
Marriage works when both sides carry the load, spiritually, emotionally, and financially according to their capacity.
Help your husband. Support him. Be his peace, not his pressure.
To the wives who are truly building with their husbands, God bless you.🙏
Our marriages must work. ❤️
@VikyInsights Try maintain it as such and you'll see who's ready to be there for you than be stuck always giving then ending up in situations aforementioned. And what's given varies it could be time, money, affection, various materials... you get?
@VikyInsights Lol you know there's like a dynamic of what is done for each other that balances and one party whether the man or woman does not have to give too much and end up hurt, drained, used while the other gives so little.
@VikyInsights I've seen a few comments which sound very true... love is a fruit... God is love... you might not be with the person anymore but nothing ever kills love 💜.
@VikyInsights Actually if you think about it, I understand how fatherly and motherly roles could operate but we have different situations in which the father (not narcissistic tho) does the regulation and it could be the mother as well. A child could learn positives from either parent.
Most women don't realise this...
A man doesn't fall out of love because of another woman. He falls out of love because of broken promises, lack of effort, poor communication, neglect, and the absence of empathy.
A woman doesn't lose him to someone else. She loses him because of her own actions.✌️
Some men are suffering in silence because they married a woman who only knows how to receive, not how to support.
Marriage is teamwork, not a sponsorship program.
If she can’t build with you, she will break you. 💀👌
@VERITY_HQ The girl's mindset is important so she can be faithful to you before and after the marriage.
You don't want a girl that is loose in both situations.
Is it a girl you think you're having fun with you end up marrying?
You'd want a girl that understands before and after marriage.
@VERITY_HQ Actually you could have a serious girl you plan to marry and the girl is aware and ready.
And coming from you about sleeping with married women, imagine after you take her seriously, someone tries to sleep with her.
@VERITY_HQ There's how you're probably thinking of women and dealing with women for you to say this... better don't bring the wrath of God on your head, yourself and that woman could have committed a deadly sin that you would not want the consequences.
@VERITY_HQ What kind of nonsense talk is this?!
Maybe you're thinking of never having a wife.
But have a wife and see if this makes sense...
Do you even bring God into this, so you would sleep with a woman knowing she's another man's wife?!
@VikyInsights How many private parts lol, if he name his penus, bumbum and armpits... which one remain? Not bad that he can name them and maybe also other parts of his body at his age.