Je déteste le fait que depuis quelques jours les filles qui n'ont pas d'amis soient décrites comme des monstres alors qu'il y a juste des personnes marginalisées sans raison ou qui traversent des difficultés psychologiques ??? Je trouve ça super culpabilisant pour elles en fait
i wouldnt even call its empathy. speaking from my experience as someone who have been going through this firsthandedly, what it deems to be empathy is just surface level of emotional distress and avoidance combined into the most terrible form of compassion
but thats consistent with our principles tho cause its never about being a misandrist we just hate certain males' behaviors. can only speak for myself but a boi whos unself-consciously himself, genuinely passionate about something low-stakes already is refreshing at first glance
like its hella devastating about a boy who got so excited over things that live in him and he simply wants me to see them too the tournaments and games he likes the techniques that took him months or years the artists that found him at exactly the right moment
ofc relationships take time to take shape and people are complicated and commitment even more so. but i also think id be doing myself a disservice not to recognize what i found. no one goes digging through soil expecting a gemstone, but when you find one you just know it
idk how it sounds to you all or the grand picture of it all, all i could see was this starryeyed boy with so much quiet adoration for the world hed built inside himself and hes opening the door showing me his little achievement room. not that flirtatious but weirdly intimate
Religious women don’t need to stop being religious. They just need to accept that there are inconsistencies in feminism and religion.
People want to have it both ways.