🔟Le mode "survie" est activé
-c'est la phase de dissociation
-on agit comme un automate déconnecté de ses propres besoins
-vous tenez, mais au prix d’un effort énorme
➡️Et l’idée “je ne vais pas tenir longtemps comme ça” apparaît, ultime rempart avant le point de rupture
People say “Why are you so angry all the time?”
Because I spent years silencing myself.
Years being talked over, walked on, dismissed.
Now every little thing feels like a fucking war.
My nervous system never learned the difference between a conversation and a threat.
Having to live like this is actually fucking brutal.
J'ai vu passer ce post sur les "privilèges" des femmes lors de la séparation.
Petit thread pour rétablir quelques vérités avec les statistiques et mon expérience d'avocate. 1/14
Many survivors of narcissistic abuse suffer in silence, not even bothering to try to tell anyone what their abusers did to them because it is so elaborate it feels impossible to try to explain it. And even if we could explain it, we’ve learned that people don’t want to hear that sort of thing. People don’t want to believe that a person was abused that badly. It’s too heavy for most people to care to believe.
Pardon mais aucune femme ne devrait brader son corps pour que des détraqués ne "souffrent pas". La virginité n'est pas une maladie ni une honte.
On a trop banaliser la pornographie et le sexe.
Si ne pas faire l'amour vous rend misogyne et violent c'est que VOUS avez un problème.
If you self isolate when things get incredibly tough.
And you push everyone away.
It’s because you had to pull yourself out of every dark place alone.
Because you never knew what it was like to be supported.
Because the only person you had to rely on was you.
Because no one ever had your back.
If you understand this I’m truly fucking sorry.
Korean/American singer-songwriter #EJAE, the lead singer #Rumi on the global amash hit "Golden" which she co-wrote, lands in the Top 20 at #19 on the Worldwide iTunes song chart with her debut single “In Another World” which showcases her beautiful soulful voice! The song lifts to a new peak at #6 on US iTunes! 💪💥1⃣9⃣🌎🎵➕🆕📈6⃣🇺🇸🎵👑💜
EJAE enters the TOP 10 of the Global Digital Artist Rank at #10 with almost 2000 points!
LISTEN:https://t.co/Jl4bvTGKTn
WATCH: https://t.co/nfCKdPA0Hh
EJAE revealed she prefers zoom writing sessions to in-person because she enjoys working in her home studio! Her two rules for every banger—strong concept + killer melodies. Who knew some of your fave songs started in someone's bedroom studio? 🎧 #EJAEOnElvis#MBInterviewLounge
Naissance d'une star, survivante d'un système qui formate les filles pour en faire un produit, et qui aboutit à la mort parfois, par maltraitance, ou simplement à la disparition par l'éviction. Et elle, comme la chanson, parle de sortir de l'ombre, de résilience, de résistance.
“KPop Demon Hunters” stars EJAE, @reiamimami and @audreynuna share their most unforgettable filming moment in the latest episode of Close Friends Only: Speed Round 💜🎤
Kids everywhere know “KPop Demon Hunters” star EJAE’s voice—if not her name. WIRED talked to the former SM trainee about her rise to global superstardom with her hit song “Golden.”
https://t.co/8rcKWvblaS
🇫🇷« Mon corps me disait sans cesse que ce bébé m'appartenait, et je ne pouvais l'expliquer à personne. L'agence, ma famille et mes amis me disaient qu'il n'était pas le mien. Je me sentais très isolée.
J'ai tenu le bébé une fois ; c'était un garçon. Nous avons pris des photos avec ma famille. C'était en 2018. » – Christian
🇬🇧 « My body kept telling me that this baby was mine, and I couldn’t explain it to anyone. The agency, my family, and my friends all told me he wasn’t mine. I felt very isolated.
I held the baby once; he was a boy. We took photos with my family. That was in 2018. » – Christian
🇫🇷 Troisième témoignage : Marianne, qui a accepté une soi-disant #GPA « altruiste » au Royaume-Uni pour sa cousine devenue infertile après un cancer. Leur accord prévoyait que Marianne resterait présente dans la vie de l’enfant – pourtant, elle n’a pas vu sa petite fille depuis dix ans.
🇬🇧 Third testimony: Marianne, who undertook so-called “altruistic” #surrogacy in the United Kingdom for her cousin, who had become infertile after cancer. Their agreement was that Marianne would remain part of the child’s life – yet she has not seen her little girl for ten years.