I wonder if kids with fathers like these can experience a unique set of abandonment issues even though their fathers are physically present. There must be some psychological effect of having a parent who just isn’t engaged or interested that would cause one to feel neglected.
Imagine the woman you want to be.
Think of what her daily life, her habits, and routines would be. Start doing those habits and routines, start building them, step by step, and day by day. You don't become her like magic, you build her. Start building!
A girl on tik tok said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
So many people stay in unhappy, stressful situations just because they are scared of starting over. Jobs. Lovers. Friends. Living situations. Art pieces. Learning how to give up & start over is such an underrated & uncommon skill- that we should all practice getting better at.
I'm naturally a loner. Even towards my own family. I don't care to be in someone's face. I'm clingy when I love someone, but the distance I can give a person is unreal.
This isn’t the season for iffy energy or wondering who’s around you. It’s essentially 2023 n the worlds insane . certainty in ur circle n personal peace is the least you can ask for .
shit is finally moving in my life and i’m really thankful for that. this time next year, imma be a completely new person in a completely new spot. and it’s going to be good.