4. Andami na pinaglaban ng mga mas matatandang bading for us to just hyperfocus on sexuality with queer liberation. Our access to intimacy should be addressed, but so does our interaction/dynamic with non-queer publics.
@YuhDunKnoEH anyone actually achieving some semblance of self awareness would immediately interrogate why they want to believe their neurosis is a sign of higher intelligence but if you lack that habit of honest self-examination you’ll just mistake the most comforting conclusion as fact
Once you no longer romanticize the intellectualization of your dysfunctions, you can quickly get over this type of stuff, but you'll have to relinquish that part of your ego that says your self-analysis actually makes you smart or interesting. A tall order for a lot of y'all.