True love isn't conditional, but trust is.
You don't stop loving someone because of their sins, but you do stop trusting them.
And if you can't trust them, you can't build with them.
So when you said you'd walk through hell for your love, this probably isn't what you imagined.
True love isn't conditional, but trust is.
You don't stop loving someone because of their sins, but you do stop trusting them.
And if you can't trust them, you can't build with them.
So when you said you'd walk through hell for your love, this probably isn't what you imagined.
One thing I’ve learned from attachment theory parenting 3 babies is that even from birth, attention is a nutritional requirement for them. They may not be able to communicate conventionally but they are born fluent in the language of the body, possibly moreso than most adults who’ve had that skill conditioned out of them, and all of my babies can intuitively detect when I’m mentally checked out, doomscrolling, or high cortisol for too long, even if I’m holding or nursing them! They’ll cry and squirm for seemingly no reason, I think all their needs are met until I lock in & give them my undivided attention, some good ole eye contact and a conversation. Babies are extremely adept at communicating their needs if we learn how to interpret them, they deserve the same kind of respect and dignity we give each other as adults. Talk, sing, read to your babies!
Look deeply at guys who resent having to put effort into a relationship with woman, and you'll find a guy angry that life demands anything from him at all.
In that brief moment, the frog attained something like divinity as conceptualised by the Ancient Greeks. That frog was Prometheus, stealing fire from the gods. He lived more than 99.99% of all human beings have ever truly lived.
@lapislagoons ah, I get that. this is why I seek and nourish relationships with people who are aligned with truth, and steer clear of those who aren't (as much as possible).