he “shook” their hand by holding onto it for like a full ten seconds before I said “you can let go now” and then immediately insulted their name and turned it into a weird comment about their gender presentation (??) at which point I forcibly ended the interaction. eughhhhh
we went to the club looking like THIS and some random man still decided to cut in and try to put the moves on my girlfriend while we were doing some dance that involved them casting an intricate love spell on me with their hands
men are fucking obsessed with letting you know in no uncertain terms whether they believe any deviation from the norm in your appearance is intended to disgust them (they will verbally assault you) or arouse them (they will sexually harass you)
hesitantly accompanied my goth gf into the city tonight in makeup and I’m pretty unfazed by most things but I have never been like AGGRESSIVELY accosted so many times in my LIFE