Fiachra Figs O’Sullivan

Figs O'Sullivan is the Founder of Empathi. A husband, dad, psychotherapist, outrigger canoe paddler, rugby fan, and Bitcoin believer.

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In a fiat world, 'Performance' is the only way to earn belonging. In a sovereign world, 'Presence' is the only requirement. Sovereignty is the refusal to perform your value for anyone.

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A stable unit of account is the 'Secure Base' of an economy. Without it, everyone is in a state of hyper-vigilance. Sound money allows the human heart to finally stand on secure ground.

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Relationship DRAMA_ Why We Hurt The Ones We Love

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The 'Dingo' in your heart wants to snap when it feels threatened. But the snap only deepens the disconnect. Sovereignty is the ability to hold the dingo with tenderness until it softens into a dog.

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Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater's split is being called "amicable." Sixteen years as a couples therapist tells me that word is a press release the body has not yet read. #ArianaGrande

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From a Dubai jail cell, Lee Andrews unfollowed Katie Price on Instagram. The internet called it petty. I see a body in a cell doing the only thing it can still do. #KatiePrice

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Relational inflation is when we trade the truth of the present for the 'illusion' of safety. We print fake peace and wonder why the foundation feels so unstable. Opt out of the lie today.

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Rethinking Self-Development_ Beyond Individualism to Interdependence

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One of my frameworks is 'Emotional Proof of Work'. the only way through relational shame. Join the list for a free first chapter: https://t.co/FgT0FVPMbr

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Bitcoin Savings Gave Me Security To Pursue My Dreams

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I used to think my Jacksonian Seizure was a medical fluke. Now I see it as my somatic ledger hitting a hard limit. I had 'printed' so much performative worth that my body finally went into default. Your body never lies about its debt.

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I sat with a couple where the wife said she felt like she was 'shouting into a canyon.' Her husband wasn't ignoring her; he was just terrified of the echo. He was a Reluctant Lover protecting himself from his own shadow. They didn't need a megaphone; they needed a bridge.

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See the System & Feel Mutual Pain_ Communicate Self-Responsibly Now!

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Telehealth changed my practice. Now I work with couples all over the world. Same patterns everywhere. Same two questions. Same Waltz of Pain. Culture changes the content. The nervous system runs the same code.

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I tell every couple: the enemy is never the person in front of you. The enemy is the dynamic between you. When you start fighting the cycle instead of each other, everything changes. Me versus you becomes us versus the pattern.

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Michelle Obama says her last chapter is for her, not her family. Half the internet hears triumph. The other half hears divorce. Both reads are wrong. #MichelleObama

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We raise men to be warriors and then wonder why they can't be tender. We raise women to be caretakers and then wonder why they rage. These are the protectors the culture installed. In my office, we uninstall them together.

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Stop Hurting Each Other_ Save Our Country & Earth Together!

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Stop Hurting Each Other_ Save Our Country & Earth Together!

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