@lotuslily818 like no there is no "morally correct" sex position, you're right! but we live in a society where literally anything outside of cishet dom man piv sex is treated as an abberation and this is never acknowledged when people want to lecture us on the morality of pegging.
i said this to be funny but actually in hindsight yeah if you wanted to make a point about the conflation of top/bottom and dom/sub in m/f configurations it would've made more sense to talk about guys riding strap in a dom way but FOR SOME REASON we had to reorient it to PIV ๐ค
@lotuslily818 women receiving PIV is the standard for all of society Nobody is taking away your PIV porn and the handwringing about that whenever women enjoy literally any other kind of sex actually is misogynistic lol this is Not A Real Problem
ive understood myself as a bisexual attracted to people regardless of gender, and as gender-nonconforming myself, for longer than most of these people have been online for and it's sooo irritating to have internet randos force false restrictions onto a whole community like that
idgaf what people personally ID as but we NEED to stop saying bisexuality means "only 2" or that we're "attracted to gender before personality" or "parts before hearts" or whatever it's ridiculously offensive as a non-binary bisexual specifically
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@lotuslily818 like my point with this post is that if they wanted to complain about bottoming always being seen as something degrading and "feminine" they could have brought up pegging w a dom bottom, but they didn't, they had to reaffirm PIV as Less Problematic
@lotuslily818 the issue is that these people try to reorient pegging as if it's actually way more problematic than normal expected PIV, they are 100x harder on an extreme minority of ship dynamics that aren't present in basically any actual media
@neumetals yeah I have hope that she's just suffering from having a small pool of convos, but I could agree she needs a little more oomph. hard to talk about her without people acting deranged ๐ญ
fairdanny stans love to make tasteless and performative israel "jokes" about mcginnis while drooling over her groomer ass boss. also complaining about "hetslop" while gayifying a guy who had his nonbinary child shot. like omgggggg
@lotuslily818 nobody is doing this to the degree that we need someone's hot take on it every other day, especially when they give space to people moaning about how there aren't enough "trad" pairings in media anymore. "performative pegging talk" isn't a real problem, sorry.
@neumetals yeah my only consideration was really more about whether valve wants to go into real life bigotry at all since there hasn't really been any queerphobia outside of that, but then they had paige do a microaggression at mirage so it's certainly not off the table
I think if u can prove your landlord hasn't been assed to address basic safety concerns like extremely fucked and dangerous wiring problems they should have to legally forfeit the house to the tenants and return x amount of rent to us so we can cover the repairs ourselves
@K1razBas3m3nT_ liking maggie mcginnis isn't okay because she makes weapons for the company that kills people but it's okay to like the guy who owns the company that kills people
i wouldnt even care about the pairing that much if it weren't for everyone who ships it doing olympic level gymnastics to hate on mcginnis for the exact same reasons that they love max like holy fandom misogyny litmus test